shawn923 Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Ok so its probably an obvious question but, should i erase my ex girlfriends best friend from fb? We are still currently friends. And im trying to stick with full NC. The main reason i wanna erase her is maybe my ex is using her profile to check my page. They are best friends and share things like this. I also have no intention of having her as a friend or anything else, i barely knew her. So knowing that, should i give her the ax too? Also, i looked thru my ex's page today. I wouldnt call it a mistake, it was just something i did off impulse. Her best friend tagged her in something so that brought me curiously to her page. To my suprise it wasnt private, and she had her new relationship with the guy she just met posted everywhere for us all to see. I think its not private so she could possibly have me seen this... Shes the type wo will rub it in like that as well so im not being paranoid here. Physically he looks like me, although he seems the total opposite. For example hes 23 with 2 kids, no school, not well educated... And they got together not even 2 weeks after leaving me major breadcrumbs. This has all the makings of a GIGS/rebound relationship, although i could care less about that now. Her moving on TWICE has burned her bridges with me. I cant forgive that. Another thing to add, today on campus she comes up to my friend and sways the conversation into telling him she had a new bf. And had on his sweater. By the time i got to school i saw her but didnt think nothing of it, but when my friend told me that, i just KNEW she worn that sweater in front of me on purpose. Keep in mind the time im on campus, she doesnt even have class! So shes here purposely, knowing im gonna be here. What kind of ex would do that? Again, i know this girl and it sounds exactly like her. She spends all her time here flirting, NEVER studying or doing school stuff. So anyways it just proved me right that shes trying hard to make it known to me, that she has a bf... Pathetic. Move on because u want to, not to spite me!
radiodarcy Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 delete and block the best friend from your facebook. and ask your friends not to fill you in on any communications they might have with your ex. she's still trying to maintain control over you and she's using your friends to do it. the best way to counter that is by ignoring her and asking your friends to do the same. when she dumped you. she lost all rights and privileges to know anything whatsoever about your life; likewise, she doesn't get to communicate the details of her life to you (be it directly or indirectly) in order to simply gauge your reaction. really. how childish can a person get be glad you're rid of this person. she sounds incredibly toxic.
Author shawn923 Posted December 6, 2011 Author Posted December 6, 2011 Thanks radio, u always have great advice for me! I cant repay you But yea its just childish, shes done things like this before. She was obviously trying to make sure i knew she had a new bf. Wow, all that does is burn her bridges with me and make it easier for me to move on!! I gotta say, seeing her fb page "in a relationship" with some no good, brand new dude, made it easier than harder to move on. Shes dated before, and it turned out to be a rebound. Now she jumps in another one, all i can do is laugh because i know how this turns out... And knowing all this, it barely hurts me or makes me emotional. Just confused and mad if anything. Anyways i erased her best friend. And shes usually hanging around school wednesday, i was thinking of wearing the sweater my ex before her got me to school If she wants to hang around and flirt with guys then she'll see me with this sweater from a person she hates. Oh well. Im NC
flitzanu Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 darcy nails it again. your ex's friend is NOT your friend. you may know each other, but when loyalty is questioned, they won't be on YOUR side.
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