Necromancer Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Often we see normal girls reject good looking guys....i have a friend who is a 9/10 he is very good looking (no homo),girls have pointed at him because he is so good looking. He was trying to tell a girl to go away who was trying to fallow him and few other friends,she was just average,she got so pissed that she said to him "Do you really think your cute enough for me". Is that her own ego ****ing with her? yes i think so....but how? Let´s take a look,take some random Fugly girl at your facebook a look and it doesn´t matter how ugly she is......still girls will say "awww your so cute!" and spammed like 10 times by different girls....They really will start to think they are really cute. INFLATED EGO to the MAX! Have some other answer to my Thread then post!:
fishtaco Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Often we see normal girls reject good looking guys....i have a friend who is a 9/10 he is very good looking (no homo),girls have pointed at him because he is so good looking. He was trying to tell a girl to go away who was trying to fallow him and few other friends,she was just average,she got so pissed that she said to him "Do you really think your cute enough for me". Is that her own ego ****ing with her? yes i think so....but how? Let´s take a look,take some random Fugly girl at your facebook a look and it doesn´t matter how ugly she is......still girls will say "awww your so cute!" and spammed like 10 times by different girls....They really will start to think they are really cute. INFLATED EGO to the MAX! Have some other answer to my Thread then post!: No, that's just a normal immature reaction when turned down. Many guys have the same reaction when they are shut down. It's just immature. When turned down, shrug and walk away. That's all you need to do.
LostInTurn Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 No, that's just a normal immature reaction when turned down. Many guys have the same reaction when they are shut down. It's just immature. When turned down, shrug and walk away. That's all you need to do. I agree. You are completely correct. It's a defense.
ditzchic Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 (edited) Editing since I can't delete. Wrong thread. Sorry Edited December 6, 2011 by ditzchic Delete. Sorry. Wrong thread :)
Pizzaman81 Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Ugh, some girls think I look like a player. Just because I am confident and smiles and whatnot... Maybe that's why girls turn them down, they feel like this guy's fishy because he's too good looking and too social.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 There are many women who are also delusional and think they are quite a bit more attractive than they actually are. But for the most part, most women realize their faults and actually have a low self-esteem. So for her talking smack that's what most people do when they get hurt, you guys sound young though so that's normal.
Author Necromancer Posted December 6, 2011 Author Posted December 6, 2011 There are many women who are also delusional and think they are quite a bit more attractive than they actually are. But for the most part, most women realize their faults and actually have a low self-esteem. So for her talking smack that's what most people do when they get hurt, you guys sound young though so that's normal. I am 17,i just see alot of girls with to high self estem! They think they will get a 9/10 looking guy...while they are like 5-6 looking and reject the 5-6 guys.
Quiet Storm Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 The parenting trend in the 90s was focused on building your kids self esteem. It was thought that praise and adoration would lead to confidence and higher achievement. Mundane things were often applauded, and parents were real soft on discipline. Self esteem is important, but too much freely given praise and over- nurturing can create problems like bullying, narcissm and entitlement issues. Back then (and still today), many parents were rewarding their kids for average things, making big deals out of normal expected achievements, telling them how beautiful they are. In general, they were making their kids feel like they are superior to others. These kids get used to the praise, and end up seeking that out from others to feel validated. They never learned to get that validation from within or to self soothe, and constantly seek outside sources of validation. facebook is the perfect place for attention whores, who get their fix from friends, "likes" and comments about their posts and pics. Many kids (girls & boys) from this "self esteem parenting" era are selfish, spoiled and entitled. Some crash hard when they get out in the real world and discover how average they really are. She thinks she deserves the best. She feels that she is too special to settle for anything less.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Trust me...they won't have high self-esteem for long because most of them if not all are going to get buuurned. Plus what you see is a sense of entitlement more than a reality, women like to pretend they are more confident than they are, but don't believe it, it's a facade. You can bet on that.
Wolf18 Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Ugh, some girls think I look like a player. Just because I am confident and smiles and whatnot... Maybe that's why girls turn them down, they feel like this guy's fishy because he's too good looking and too social. Yeah I think that's my problem too, I'm too charming and good looking. I think they're also intimidated by my penile elephantitis, or the fact that I junked my red Ferrari because the ashtray broke( I wanted a blue one anyway). No girl anywhere ever will reject you for being too good looking.
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