stunned8165 Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 First, this is my story http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t302201/ The phone rang and I recognized the ring tone. Of coarse I felt anxious, but I sucked it up and answered. I answered with a Hello in a happy tone. She said hello and I asked what's up in a like "what do you want" tone. She said she wanted to let me know I may see a charge on my American Express for a Disney Movie. Now I'm not sure if she ordered the movie and used my card which was on file because we created the account together, or if they automaticly sent it. Which they have done before. I know there was a charge in July too and the movie came here and I sent it to her. She left me a message saying she would take care of changing that info and send me the money but obviously she hasn't. She never sent the money either which I don't care about because it was for the kids. So she explained that she wanted to let me know about it and she was going to send the money. All I said to her was ok. I asked no questions what so ever. She asked me how life was and I said good. She even asked me where I was at? I told her, the grocery store. Then she went back to saying she's sorry about the charge on my card and I said fine. I used all one word answers. Then I cut her off and asked her how the kids were. She proceeded to go on and on about the little girl and kindergarten. Then she asked me again "so life is good for you?" I said yes, life is really good. Then she daid she would send me the money . I said ok. Then she said again " I just wanted to let you know" I said ok. Like I said, all one word answers.. Then she said I guess I'll see ya. I said > OK and hung up. Keep in mind, I cut all LC almost 8 weeks ago. I was doing some reaching out for about 4 months prior to that. And then I posted here recently how all of a sudden, she is appearing on my route home. You can find those details in my threads. But what gets me, any contact we have had was strictly e mai and texting. Now she get's the nerve to pick up the phone? WTF?.... Something is up. Because otherwise, she would have just e mailed.
smokey bear Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 You done very well, go back to nc and see if she breaks it again. Do you want a recon?
Author stunned8165 Posted December 6, 2011 Author Posted December 6, 2011 You done very well, go back to nc and see if she breaks it again. Do you want a recon? I'm not sure if I want recon Smokey. I don't know if I will ever be able to trust her again. There would have to be too many rules now like she can't work at that place any longer and she would have to agree to therapy. And she certainly wouldn't be able to move back in. But what do you feel she might be up to? I did find out that charge was back on Nov 15th and she waited this long? Also, the movie went to her and not here. The last movie in July came here. So she atleast changed the shipping address. Besides, she ignored me for months when I was initiating LC. Then I shut it down. And now in the past three weeks she has showed up on my way home from work. And now this call. Maybe the grass isn't so green on the otherside after all?.. Not GIGS but thinking that life with him would be better or easier?
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