ditzchic Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 I just posted a crazy rant here two days ago about the ex that I haven't been able to get out of my head since our split 4 months ago. I've been NC for 3.5 months. I was sooooo strong. Well today my e-mail account was phished and was sending out spam e-mails to everyone in my contact list, which of course he is in. He replied to one of the e-mails. His response was simply "....". He's in IT. The e-mail was pretty obvious spam. He was the only person that responded. I guess everyone else figured it was spam and felt no need to respond. Seeing his name pop up in my e-mail sent me into full on freak out mode. I responded to his response.... God, I feel so weak! I only responded with "Sorry. I was phished. Fixed now. No money to be made or penis enhancement here." I don't know why I couldn't just delete it.... How far back did I set myself???
geegirl Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 I just posted a crazy rant here two days ago about the ex that I haven't been able to get out of my head since our split 4 months ago. I've been NC for 3.5 months. I was sooooo strong. Well today my e-mail account was phished and was sending out spam e-mails to everyone in my contact list, which of course he is in. He replied to one of the e-mails. His response was simply "....". He's in IT. The e-mail was pretty obvious spam. He was the only person that responded. I guess everyone else figured it was spam and felt no need to respond. Seeing his name pop up in my e-mail sent me into full on freak out mode. I responded to his response.... God, I feel so weak! I only responded with "Sorry. I was phished. Fixed now. No money to be made or penis enhancement here." I don't know why I couldn't just delete it.... How far back did I set myself??? I don't think you set yourself back. Setting yourself back would be engaging in a back and forth and so on. Just get back up and enforce NC again. Nothing much you can do but move forward. You reacted, responded, and was hoping for a response in an effort to test the waters. You know you made a mistake so move on. Get back to NC.
Author ditzchic Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 He just sent responded to my e-mail. Of course he commented on the penis enhancing part.... But you know what, I'm going to stay strong. If I respond back it's like me boarding the express train to crazy town again and I know that and I don't want to go there. I'm doing nothing. Thank God for these message boards!
geegirl Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 He just sent responded to my e-mail. Of course he commented on the penis enhancing part.... But you know what, I'm going to stay strong. If I respond back it's like me boarding the express train to crazy town again and I know that and I don't want to go there. I'm doing nothing. Thank God for these message boards! His penis must have responded. Typical. But it was an open door. Don't go there with him. You knew you made a mistake when you responded. Don't repeat.
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