Steadfast Posted January 4, 2012 Posted January 4, 2012 I mean no personal disrespect, because IMO no one is all bad or all good. Still, realize and remember forever that any man who flirts, confides or otherwise 'opens up' to a married woman behind her husband's back does not deserve to be loved. Or admired. Or dreamed about. Take the time to separate the difference between attraction and love, or desire and respect. Attraction isn't a choice, but love is. Attraction is superficial, love isn't. You can't be blamed for being attracted to another man, but what you've done with that attraction is wrong. I'm sorry, but you have not been faithful. It is good that you haven't taken it farther; that is the point of no return for many people. Just the same, your husband may have already checked out. That is the chance you took by carrying on with someone else. Believe me when I say you can't imagine how he feels. Words can't describe. I am glad this thread helped you. Best of luck-
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