thepedestrian Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Just wondering what I should do here. I tried to rekindle things with my ex but she is currently in a relationship and she wants to play it out. She says she would be interested in rekindling things if it didn't work out and told me simply "it wasn't going to work for her right now" and told one of our mutual friends that "we're done for now" We never had any fights and we simple broke up because at the time it wasn't right for me. We remained good friends for a long time after that basically until this point and she said she still wants to be friends after I told her how I feel. i don't think I can do this (I can't see her with another guy, it hurts, bad) but at the same time I want to keep one foot in the door just in case things don't work out with her and this guy you know.... I will probably see her from time to time I am accepting the fact that I need to move on and date other people now but I don't know if I want to close that door completely... IE: Going NC and deleting her from facebook, etc. I haven't talked to her in almost two weeks. The longest time in the past 3 years.
twinkles Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 I don't think you have to sit on the sidelines and wait for her. You can go ahead in your life just as she is doing. You don't have to delete her from facebook you can stay in light contact with her and if she calls you can answer. There are no rules here. You do what's best for you. Just live like she's not coming back and if she does well then she does.. One foot in the door the other foot out the door. What's the hurry.. get on with your life. Stop sitting around moping and get out there.
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