filmbuffy Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Long story short; my girlfriend of 3 years came home and told me the relationship was no longer working, which basically translated into there was someone else. She moved in with that person two weeks after ending things with me. That was in July. It is now early December and they are getting married this coming Friday. I guess they want to make it legal before NH repeals the gay marriage law. My ex contacted me several weeks ago and wanted to meet up, saying she missed me, etc. I had gone to no contact with her b/c the friendship we were trying to maintain seemed awfully one sided to me. I initiated most of the texting/emails, etc. and many of them went unanswered. She basically ran hot and cold on me. I've seen her do this with friends and family and decided I did not want any part of it so had gone to no contact with her. Anyway, I agreed to meet with her, but told her she can't pull that hot/cold crap on me any longer and I expected honesty from her moving forward. Something she obviously could not meet while we were together. That said, now I hear through a mutual friend that she is getting married this coming Friday. Am I out of line thinking this is something she should have told me herself? Just frustrated and wondering if this second attempt at friendship is a complete waste of my time? I am not going to confront her about any of this.... as I don't want to damper her spirits with her pending nuptials.... just needed to vent.
maxy1 Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 that sucks, but she sounds like a damper on your life. if my ex did something like that, i would definitely not be talking to her again. i know how you feel with the hot/cold. i am struggling with it too, but have just told myself to stop initiating contact. i am still answering though, and my friends make me feel like an idiot for it. but i feel like they just don't know.. good luck. like someone on here just told me the other day: hope for the best but be prepared for the worst.
lolita jade Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Sounds like her head is all over the place and she is not only dating on the rebound but marrying on the rebound too. Watch this space............. It doesn't bode well for a lasting marriage???
BoredAgain Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Yeah, that's what I was thinking... marrying on the rebound. Yikes! That doesn't sound like a winning combination.
mridul_chajilee Posted December 8, 2011 Posted December 8, 2011 It does not mean that she is happy after marriage...Oneday she wil realise but that day it will be late for her.
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