Author stab17 Posted December 15, 2011 Author Posted December 15, 2011 no, i was willing to take the $500 loss for airfare.. but name isn't transferrable on the flight so they can't get it.
betterdeal Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 But if the penalty is the same as the flight price, essentially all you need to sell them is the other $400 worth e.g. the accommodation, and they can buy their own flights. Write off the flight tickets you have but sell everything else to them.
Author stab17 Posted December 15, 2011 Author Posted December 15, 2011 Package Overview Before proceeding, you must read the full rules and restrictions.Hotwire Vacations packages can be canceled according to the cancellation rules of the individual components making up the packages (see below for the specific rules of the components of your packages).You may not cancel any item without voiding the entire package.You must call For Vacations support, call us at 1-866-394-2015. For Activities support, call us at 1-866-345-4007. For international calls, contact 001-702-939-2525 to change or cancel your package. **** it i guess i'm gonna have to take the losses and maybe just go by myself =(
betterdeal Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 And get yourself a hot chick on vacation!
Author stab17 Posted December 17, 2011 Author Posted December 17, 2011 OMG, i'm really ****ing hurting again... 2 weeks NC and then I find out through the grapevine that she's gonna go out partying tonight... makes me feel so ****in bad, ****KKKKKKK. i don't know what to do right now, i was doing so good until i hear about this ****..
Melrapuo Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 OMG, i'm really ****ing hurting again... 2 weeks NC and then I find out through the grapevine that she's gonna go out partying tonight... makes me feel so ****in bad, ****KKKKKKK. i don't know what to do right now, i was doing so good until i hear about this ****.. I'd suggest cutting all grapevines, or at least curving them from getting to you. The truth is, hearing anything about them will only hurt you more. Believe me, after my first break up all i ever did was stalk on FB or ask friends about her. I always heard about these parties that she was going to or having. I heard about how my ex ended up hooking up with a couple guys. It hurts. Its going to hurt. Ignorance is bliss sometimes. Maybe YOU should go out tonight to a party. YOU should hang out with friends. Its not about her anymore, its about you. This isn't us telling you that you have to get over it overnight. I just got out of a relationship two days ago, and believe me I'm hurting here. But I'm doing my best to not pay attention to what she's doing and moving on. Eventually one day she'll hook up with someone, even date them. Eventually I will, too. That's something you have to accept.
Author stab17 Posted December 20, 2011 Author Posted December 20, 2011 i partied 2 days straight... i just compare every girl i see to her. Now im just sick and lost my voice.. lol FML
Melrapuo Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 i partied 2 days straight... i just compare every girl i see to her. Now im just sick and lost my voice.. lol FML Well at least you went out. Its ok, I went to the mall with my friends yesterday just to get out, and all I did was stare at couples and feel sad - especially since its christmas time. All you can do is keep your chin up and keep moving forward.
Author stab17 Posted December 21, 2011 Author Posted December 21, 2011 I know this is going against everyone, but I feel like I have nothing to lose anymore. I'm going to give the gifts regardless of a response. I feel so much better now even though it's only been 3 weeks of NC. I do want reconciliation but I feel like I am confident enough to be single now. I have taken the time to work 50 hours a week, going out a lot meeting new people and started cooking as a new hobby. Been going back to the gym 4x a week again and finally hitting new PRs along with the newfound diet i am clean bulking into a lean 170 =). I am ready for the worst. You can flame me but this is the risk I am going to take. Support me!
Author stab17 Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 3 weeks of no crying and I tried one of the coping techniques of writing a letter and not sending it... And i just bursted in tears.... I feel like this isn't a method that is helping me cope.
betterdeal Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 You'll get there, buddy. Sometimes the feelings we have are just too painful or too big for us to let out in one go. Maybe crying over the letter was part of the healing process, of letting out some of those feelings. Imagine you had a nasty infection. It would take some time for all the bugs to be expelled from your body, and some time to recover from the fever and what not. This is similar. People say "let go" and we often think that means just drop it, but really, sometimes, letting go is a process in itself. It takes more time for some of us than others. You'll get there.
Author stab17 Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 I expressed my feelings through a letter I sent her along with the tickets. This is briefly what I wrote. In the letter I pretty much said I respect her and her decision. I apologized about the hurtful things I also said during the break-up because I did it out of anger, then how by spending more time by myself I finally saw the reasons why she made that decision. Also explaining why I deleted her off FB. Then I said she can throw away the stuff I still have laying around in her house. We finally talked and I'm going to be completely honest, it's not what I wanted to hear. Soon as I called her I can hear the nervousness in her voice and I could feel her starting to tear up. It was around a 5 minute convo. We greeted each other Merry Christmas, which was good. I then asked how she was doing and how was her exams, then she said good and asked me how I was... I in return said I'm doing well and we talked a little bit more. She said she was going to call me but was afraid I wouldn't answer. I was really confident and sounded positive. Then comes the issue with "my stuff" she said she can't throw away a few items, I should have it back because she knows how important those things are to me. She asked me if she should mail it to me or if we should meet up. I said we can meet up it's fine. Then about the ticket, she didn't mention anything until I brought it up. She said maybe I can just pay you back. I just said don't worry about it. Then I said I'd have to go but you shouldn't be afraid to call me because I would answer, she said I will answer too whenever you want to call. I expressed no bitterness throughout this whole conversation. I seem to have set myself back a little bit, she said she will call me again about the stuff so we can figure a time to meet. I still have false hope even though my brain is thinking it's over.
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