Bran Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Hey guys, me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago we lived together and dated for a little under 6 months and we were best friends before we started dating. Long story short everytime she comes home we hang out and end up sleeping over at each others places just to cuddle but we don't do anything sexual. Everytime we are drunk she tells me she misses me and she gives me THAT look (if you know what Im talking about). When we talk when we are sober I asked her if there was something going on between us and she said she only sees me as a friend. Then she told me we shouldn't hang out because I couldn't handle it, yet calls me a few hours after to hang out??? I am so confused, either she really just sees me as a friend and is using me for comfort or she has feelings for me but tells herself she doesn't? I am very confused so please shed some light. I have been stuck in this limbo of no emotion because I don't know what is going on.
BoredAgain Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Well, she's using you. She probably doesn't have any malicious intent about it because she seems to have attempted to cut it off, citing your emotions as a reason. However, you're being a doormat for her, so that's how she's treating you. You have to cut off the hanging out and messing around. Do the No Contact thing for awhile, otherwise you're headed for disaster. Trust me, you don't want the "we have to stop sleeping together because I'm seeing somebody new" speech.
Author Bran Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 yea thats what I figured, she just moved n is lonely n I kno she wants to be friends but I cant let her have her cake n eat it too. Until I'm over her Ill have to go NC. I could always do it with every other girlfriend I had but with her its hard cuz we were such good friends before we started dating. I dont even know if I would want her back I think its just the want what you cant have thing
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