jghindo Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 (edited) Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months. He is my first boyfriend and first kiss. We said "I love you" for the first time on our 1 month anniversary and we are very serious. He always tells me how he wants to marry me and that i'm the "one." I play along but in my head i go back in forth about whether I really feel the same way. I don't have any other experience so it is hard for me to know whether i'm really in love or not. Also, my boyfriend and I don't have a ton in common. We are more like an opposites attract thing, but its waring off. He isn't the type I usually go for either. Meanwhile, he has this friend who isn't super hot or anything but is the type i usually go for. We have sooo much in common and he's super funny and sweet. We are getting closer as friends recently too. I have a total crush on him but its all in my head. He has a big crush on this girl at his school and I even give him advice on how to win her over. I don't know what to do. It seems like none of my options are going to make me happy? I don't mind ultimately breaking up with my boyfriend, but I would really want to stay friends with him and I don't know how to do that because he is super in love with me. Edited December 5, 2011 by jghindo
dispatch3d Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 your boyfriends best friend isn't really an option. So stop that.
gaius Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 (edited) If you need to break up with your boyfriend and move on then do it. Dispatch is right though, don't be a social cancer and start dating his best friend. There are other guys out there that I'm sure you would find to be your type and aren't your boyfriends best friend, you just have to put in a little work to find them. Edited December 5, 2011 by gaius
Author jghindo Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 i just really really like this kid. I'm completely aware of how awful it is. I wish I liked another guy but it is so difficult to find guys that I have a genuine interest for. Its hard to get over. Maybe it could happen in the future?
Cracker Jack Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 I think what you really need to be focusing on is ending this relationship. It's clear you're not into your bf any longer, so there's no reason to continue being with him.
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