AlisaMarie Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 So a couple nights ago I decided to join the rest of the world and reactivate my facebook. I feel that I have accepted the decisions made by my ex and I know that only his only psycho mind has to deal with the consequences. I have been abused enough. So upon reactivation... let the drama begin... she kept messaging me about a picture... So I deleted it and the she was messaging me how I am so obsessed with her. Say what? I then blocked her and her little sister started. They were telling me to grow up and how ugly I am. Finally he calls me. I declined the call only to get a text to tell me to stop running my mouth and to grow up and move on. Can someone explain here? I have been silent for 6 weeks????!!! Also, I didn't respond to him but I really don't want this drama. Why are they ganging up on me like I am some sort of lunatic? It's somewhat hurtful.
shayla Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 They are starting in on you because you haven't been there to gang up on for 6 weeks and they think that it hurts you. You havent' been there to react to their foolishness and no one got the ego boost they wanted. So they start in on you hard to get a reaction. DO NOT GIVE THEM ANYTHING! Do not feed this in any way. They are the lunatics, and they are showing you in a big way.
Author AlisaMarie Posted December 4, 2011 Author Posted December 4, 2011 They are starting in on you because you haven't been there to gang up on for 6 weeks and they think that it hurts you. You havent' been there to react to their foolishness and no one got the ego boost they wanted. So they start in on you hard to get a reaction. DO NOT GIVE THEM ANYTHING! Do not feed this in any way. They are the lunatics, and they are showing you in a big way. Thanks Shayla, this girl was his "on the side" thing for like a year. He'd run to her for a few weeks then crawl back to me for a couple months. This is honestly the 3rd and last time he left me for her. The are both very deranged people and I want to say so much but I have kept it quiet. The only people I have talked about them to are my friends. Obsessed? Hardly! Hurt? Of course, I was with him for a long time and she wouldn't leave him alone for a year. Of course when I was with him I would want to know stuff about her but after the night he left me again, her car was at his house and I said "I was right all along." The end... I have let go... hung out with friends, dated again... and feel great! It's like she freaked when she saw me on Facebook. My teenage daughter doesn't deal with this much drama! Wow... I am still hurt but I have forgiven and accepted that who his is will never match up with who I am. I am really okay with that.
Author AlisaMarie Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 How do you just let go of the anger you feel for these delusional people? I really could have cared less what she was saying... but when he called and texted it really bothered me. Like I am the fool whenever I did nothing! We do live in a small county where if you say one thing it will get back to them... but this girl drives past my house constantly and sees my friends out and asks them why I hate her and she's not a home wrecker. Clearly she's the one that's obsessed. Why do people project their craziness upon me????
shayla Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Because they want to be seen as the good guys, and the way they do it is to try to make you look like a psycho. But do not buy into their messiness. Those that know you will recognize that they are the ones doing all the talking, and you are above it and living your life. In my experience, the only thing that helped kill the anger was time. Time and finding things you enjoy.
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