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Dry spells are one bad thing about being single.

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Tom81 Established Member

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For me, it's been a couple years since my divorce. Getting out and doing the OLD thing...nothing has hit yet. So the dry spell thing is getting to me some...hopefully I'll find someone special again one of these days :)

iris219 Established Member

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I feel the same way iris, except I wouldn't feel regretful afterwards, so much as it was a disappointment and a waste of time and effort.

 

The thing is the older i am getting the less interested I am in getting into a relationship either. It would take someone really special to get me interested again.

 

I think that is why I am not so fussed about the drought anymore. I figure most people get to an age where sex is no longer going to happen anymore. Some just get there sooner rather then later.

 

Since I want to have children, and I need to make this happen soon, I'm VERY interested in a relationship. If I could find someone who wasn't a horrible person and wasn't completely physically hideous, I'd be pretty satisfied. I have terrible dating luck.

 

I've been having these weird sex dreams and I have orgasms during these, so I'm getting a lot of action when asleep. :laugh: I guess this helps keep me sane, though it messes up my sleep.

 

Anyone else experience these nocturnal orgasms during dry spells?

Titania22 Established Member

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Since I want to have children, and I need to make this happen soon, I'm VERY interested in a relationship. If I could find someone who wasn't a horrible person and wasn't completely physically hideous, I'd be pretty satisfied. I have terrible dating luck.

 

I think that makes all the difference. I've already had my kids, and in a few more years they will be all grown up.

 

As for terrible luck, I have heard similar from women of all different ages. Personally if i didn't have the kids and wanted a relationship, i would up and move somewhere where i thought i had a better chance of finding someone.

Red Arremer Established Member

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Two and a half years here, no prospects and no signs of this changing any time soon 8-)

Surrealist Established Member

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It's been ages since I've posted on this site but anyway FWIW.... I've been celibate for going on six years and haven't had a date in that time. I was married previously.

 

Unless you wish to have a ONS or some other non-committed arrangement and comfortable with that, then you will more likely get something if you are a woman and make yourself available and approachable.

 

If not, then the best thing to do is live life, pursue good healthy interests and hobbies, and understand that you can certainly live without sex. I'm a 41 year old male, full-time good government job, committed to a good diet and lift heavy weights to stay in pretty good shape year-round.

 

I left this site and haven't looked back. I'm enjoying life without worrying whether or not I get laid. I'm strong, independant and in need of noone. You can do the same, and make great progress in life.

 

Best wishes.

bac Established Member

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Hey guys,

 

And I don't think the issue is that I'm unattractive because I have guys and girls tell me I'm beautiful a lot. But I think the issue is that I'm too chicken to have random sex/one night stands. I know I could if I wanted to but i can't bring myself to do it. But I feel like that's the only way I can break my dry spell.

 

I guess the other option is to get another boyfriend, but I'm having trouble with that right now (a whole other issue). Oh and I have a vibrator that's been working wonders but it's not the same as d*ck.

 

Anyhow, anyone else in a dry spell like me? How have you been dealing??

 

And what's random sex like? I can't imagine it being that great if there's no connection between you and the guy...is it worth it?

 

Ok, so maybe I am asking for advice now! Thanks peeps.

 

Everyone had dry spells.

 

Girls do not have dry spells often, because the term is mostly about a d...ck for 10 minutes in your p....y with no other connection. If you want the only d....k for 5-10 minutes with no other connection, you have a real dry spell like males do.

It is impossible for a girl to have the problem because you can find tons of guys who would f......k anyone anytime anywhere.

 

As for sexual satisfaction, a vibrator and especially your finger are much much better than any man. But, the vibrator cannot provide you with emotional attachment which you are really looking for.

 

As for random sex, you should see for yourself and try the stuff.

Under certain circumstances, it is great for a woman but the circumstances are very limited.

Most often, as a girl, you feel low self-esteem, depression, used, hopeless, a looser and stuff like that. If you supress your negative feelings about the event, you might experience physical symptoms. For example, I was vomiting for 24 hrs after sex with a guy. It included staying in bed and taking all possible medications. It was not fun.

A male after random sex feels a winner, high self-esteem, that his manhood is proved once again, that he should prove it again with another female, that he does not want you anymore unless you make it clear that you are only into FWBs and stuff like that.

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