sizzlebizzle Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Firstly let me point out I am new to this so probably posted this in the wrong place so be kind! I met this girl at work ages ago and like everyone else there thought she was gorgeous and wanted to get to know her straight away. But bein incredibly shy and reserved it took a while. I eventually got her number and we would text every now and again. I mentioned one time we should go and watch a film sometime, but as I am at uni and she swims all the time it didn't happen, but then out of the blue she text me and asked me to the movies and we went. That night went really well, we were laughing and having a good conversation the whole evening. After I gave her a hug goodnight. The following weekend we has a work Christmas party and before hand I had to go to a birthday meal and during the meal was texting her that I was to be late, she would reply by asking me to get there quicker. Once I eventually got there we spent the whole evening together. Towards the end of the night there were a few of us sitting together including her brother. She started to hold my hand and cuddle up closer to me which I responded to but felt a little uncomfortable with her brother there. I really wanted to kiss her but didn't. Since that night we texted a lot but I have seen her at work and things don't seem as good. Talking is a bit harder as she seems quite reserved. I asked her out again and as said yes but also said she was quite busy and not sure what day. The night of the Xmas party she invited me to a chocolate festival which should be good and we also have another Xmas party to go to next weekend. I am just a little worried about how things seem harder and she seems reserved. I still text her but don't want to do it too much. I am thinking on the next night out we have as long as it goes well to tell her I like her but not 100%. I really just would like some advice on what to do an wonder why she might be Slightly reserved. Sorry for such a long story just wanted to get it all in. Thanks
cerridwen Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 She could be slightly reserved because her tooth hurts. Or, because her landlord is a jerk. Or, because her mother gave her a hard time about a long-standing family issue. My point is it could be anything, and may not be about you at all. Two dates are set up and that's hugely positive! If she wasn't into you, she'd have cancelled. But, she likes you! Forget her mood because again, it could be about something else entirely. Instead, focus on the positive and make sure on the next date, if all the signals are green, to let her know you indeed find her lovely and fascinating. Oh, and kiss her.
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