Jay Bigz Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 (edited) I split up with my girlfriend around 3 months ago now - She had one friend in particular that she always used to visit, and hang out with, throughout our relationship, but I never actually met her in person....During one of the usual rows throughout our relationship, I was taking some time out, and considering walking away, when this 'friend' sent me long, and extended messages, telling me not to do it, and that I should forgive her because we're a great couple, and she loves me dearly, and loads of stuff like that - I find it odd that she was engaging with me like this, seeing as we hadn't actually met before, and were not friends... After we split, my ex told me that this particular friend was still saying good things about me, and saying that she prefers me when compared to my exes new rebound partner - Once again, I found this odd as she still hadn't actually met me, but had obviously seen countless amounts of pictures... This weekend, I was queing up outside a nightclub with some pals, and the 'friend' had obviously seen, and recognised me, and interputed our conversation and asked for confirmation of my name to make sure it was - I instantly recognised her too, from photos that my ex showed to me - she was giggly, smiley, warm, and friendly, whilst being ultra engaging and asking me questions. I found this odd, as I wasn't exactly the perfect partner to my ex, and I know that she used to share all our problems with this friend, and our break up was quite harsh - it left me wondering why this so called friend of my exes, who had never met me before, now seemed so keen on engaging with me... - She seemed keen to make her presence known to my friends, although only talking directly to me and not anybody else - she also has another close friend who has recently joined our friend circle... - One of my friends noticed some signals, and body language, and said it's pretty obvious that she's interested, as she was stroking, and fiddling, with her necklace whislt talking to me (which I didn't notice, because I'm dumb like that) She was with a group of other girls, but kind of left them for a minute and followed me inside to the bar - she then asked me, very cheekily, to buy her drink, with a flirty tone, and nature, to which I happily, and calmly, obliged - After getting her a drink she took it, thanked me, and said shes going upstairs to the dancefloor area, and asked if I was coming up there anytime soon, to which I said I would be in abit.... - As I was with my own friends, I kinda forgot about it for a while, until one of my friends reported that he'd seen her and she was asking if I was still here, and where I was.... It was quite a big place, and I didn't end up bumping into her again, but when considering all these things I'm starting to wonder what her agenda was that night??? Is she interested? Or just being friendly?? Does she not feel abit harsh to my ex, behaving like that with me, knowing that I broke her heart? She's a very pretty girl, and I have to admit, that I'd always thought she was very attractive when I'd seen her pictures (we're 'facebook friends') - Also, can it work when you date an ex girlfriends friend? I sent a very brief, one liner, message to her on facebook a few hours ago, just saying that it was nice to finally meet her in person - haven't recieved anything back yet, but there could be a million reasons for that....Guess I'll find out in due course, what her agenda is - if she ignores it, then I'll write it off, but surely if she responds, and continues to engage, it will mean she's interested??? She's just recently split up with her partner too, and is single for the first time in 2 years... Edited December 4, 2011 by Jay Bigz
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