lost her this time...

[jamrah]

hallo,

 

i started seeing this girl in august, we met in a bar, we had worked together years before but i had never noticed her. she came up to me and asked me if i was who she thought i was. i said yeah. anyway we got talking and i asked her if she would like to go out. so the following week we went out and had a great nite which culminated in us sleeping together. a week later we went out again and had a good nite and we slept together again. after that she went cold on me and we left it at that...a week or two later i contacted her and we started to hang out again, she brought me stuff back from america and that was great. we had a few good nites out...recently tho things have taken a turn for the worse, we went out for a curry which was great but i was tired got drunk then started pestering her about 'us', she did not like this but over the following few days forgave me. we then had a great nite at mine with pizza, dvd's etc. a week after that she was contacted me to see if i wanted to go for a drink, again i was tired and got drunk and acted like an ass...i left her alone the day after, but she had posted on her f/b that she couldnt be bothered with things ie. her ex and me...i phoned her the day after and we spoke for a while but never really cleared much up...i got a text 20 mins later saying 'thanks for phoning, just want some time myself just now. arrange something soon.xx', i then see on f/b that she has written 'snuggled up drinking tea. makes me glad im single.' now i havent contacted her in a while but by my estimation i have totally 'bombed' here. i will not annoy her but i am really annoyed at myself that i messed this up, i mean i really like her but i think now its a one-way street and there is no coming back...do i just leave her be or do i contact her and possibly push her further away...so confused...thank u for reading....

[Butterfly21]

Meeh, i would leave her. It honestly sounds like she isn't really interested. Let her go and move on