I think I will have to start dating "unattractive women" because I can't take it

[PhillyDude]

The last 3 females I have met online who I have been attracted to had some type of drama going in their life.

 

Girl 1 met me and then her apartment was robbed, she lost her dog, having family issues

 

Girl 2 met me and she just had surgery and can't return to work until february

 

Girl 3 I haven't met yet face to face but called her last night and found out she is in the emergency room and that she is scared

 

 

Should I just send a message online to a woman who is FAT with MISSING TEETH who probably won't have any drama??-lol

 

 

Either I have the worst luck in the world or I wasn't put here to be in a relationship with someone i'm attracted to. I'm a strong believer of if you can't find a person to be with you are attracted to then it's better to be ALONE.

[verhrzn]

Maybe you're attracted to drama.

 

Maybe you're only into the type of women who invite drama into their lives.

 

Maybe you should just message and approach more women.

 

But whatever you do... leave girls you're not attracted to alone. There is nothing worse than discovering a guy is with you because he's desperate. If you can't hold dating an unattractive girl for your own selfish reasons, at least be a human being and consider HER feelings... that no girl, even ugly ones, want a guy to be with them because they're so needy and couldn't get a hot girl.

[PhillyDude]

Maybe you're attracted to drama.

 

Maybe you're only into the type of women who invite drama into their lives.

 

Maybe you should just message and approach more women.

 

But whatever you do... leave girls you're not attracted to alone. There is nothing worse than discovering a guy is with you because he's desperate. If you can't hold dating an unattractive girl for your own selfish reasons, at least be a human being and consider HER feelings... that no girl, even ugly ones, want a guy to be with them because they're so needy and couldn't get a hot girl.

 

One of the girl that I mentioned lost her dog and has family issues is online tonight on plenty of fish. I just sent her a message and said...."oh I see you have time to date again"

 

Curious to see what her response will be-LOL

[DearAbby]

Online dating is like a puzzle. Go out with 100 wrong puzzle pieces before u meet one that fits. Get rid of those 3. Find someone else. Also get off Plenty of Fish, it's a free site so the people on it are ehh. Go on eharmony or a paid site.

[Eddie Edirol]

Well now you know that these women didnt actually have drama, they just had lame excuses that you couldnt call them out on. Since one of them was back online. Funny how that works eh? So since its just rejection and not drama, you have to go back to playing the numbers, and date within your league. If you keep getting these excuses from the pretty ones, then yes, you will have to settle for less. I got an idea for you, forget online where they cant get to know you in person. Go to clubs instead. At least there, you can make them laugh of the bat, and you have a better chance.

[PhillyDude]

Well now you know that these women didnt actually have drama, they just had lame excuses that you couldnt call them out on. Since one of them was back online. Funny how that works eh? So since its just rejection and not drama, you have to go back to playing the numbers, and date within your league. If you keep getting these excuses from the pretty ones, then yes, you will have to settle for less. I got an idea for you, forget online where they cant get to know you in person. Go to clubs instead. At least there, you can make them laugh of the bat, and you have a better chance.

 

She said she has a new phone and asked for my number since she lost all her contacts.

 

It doesn't matter anymore because she is now dropped to fetish status.

[Cracker Jack]

I think going after women you're not attracted to is a huge waste of time. You're only going to end up hurting her in the end, anyway. Just go after women you want.

[AD1980]

Maybe you're attracted to drama.

 

Maybe you're only into the type of women who invite drama into their lives.

 

Maybe you should just message and approach more women.

 

But whatever you do... leave girls you're not attracted to alone. There is nothing worse than discovering a guy is with you because he's desperate. If you can't hold dating an unattractive girl for your own selfish reasons, at least be a human being and consider HER feelings... that no girl, even ugly ones, want a guy to be with them because they're so needy and couldn't get a hot girl.

 

Like women dont do the same thing?

 

Most unattracitve looking people arent togther because they think the other one is so hot theyre together because they have limited options and cant afford to be picky with looks