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Neither of them got to the point of leading innocent strangers to an alley to rob them without having a background of victimization themselves.

Typical left-wing bullsh*t. Everyone is a victim of circumstances :rolleyes:. As they say in the US of A, a liberal is a conservative who has never been robbed...

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Mostly because of my job (what I tell coppers :lmao:) , but also for protection.

 

 

 

Not really a bad neighborhood at all. But I was dumb enough to follow a woman into a dark, blocked off area LOL.

 

My outlook of women has been negative for a long time, this really just cements it. It's not about the hustle either, men and women can scam or screw you ever in equal amounts, what actually enrages me is how an obese underman with no values and the IQ of a mentally retarded infant can command so much loyalty and love in a woman and yet I and so many other guys are complete ghosts to women. That bothered me more than having a pistol to my head, or getting robbed. He's going to be banging this seemingly normal girl ("who made some bad decisions") tonight, it made me realize that there is no point in even trying. Regardless of how many women are out there doing the bidding of subhumans for free and without even being asked, that is always 1 more than me so all arguments to the contrary are simply chasing tangents.

 

 

 

 

 

I agree that I made my mistake in following my dong, but I doubt you would say this if a woman followed some guy into a dark alley and got raped by his pals.

 

I am not trying to be harsh at all. Just saying that you have to trust your gut. And yes, I have two daughters and I absolutely tell them to never ever do this. While it would break my heart if either of them were hurt in this way, they both know that the odds are high this would happen if you engage in unsafe behavior. In a perfect world, you should not have to worry about this, but in the real world, you have to be careful when trusting a stranger. You don't walk out of a place with them, and you sure don't agree to go to a hotel room with someone you just met. The chance of disaster is too great.

 

I am sorry you were mugged, I'm grateful that you were not hurt, please learn from the mistake that made this possible.

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I am not trying to be harsh at all. Just saying that you have to trust your gut. And yes, I have two daughters and I absolutely tell them to never ever do this. While it would break my heart if either of them were hurt in this way, they both know that the odds are high this would happen if you engage in unsafe behavior. In a perfect world, you should not have to worry about this, but in the real world, you have to be careful when trusting a stranger. You don't walk out of a place with them, and you sure don't agree to go to a hotel room with someone you just met. The chance of disaster is too great.

 

I am sorry you were mugged, I'm grateful that you were not hurt, please learn from the mistake that made this possible.

 

It ain't Wolf18's fault that he was mugged, it's the muggers. Jeez Louise, does no one understand the concept of personal responsibility? Didn't these goons commit a crime? Isn't it incumbent on them not to commit a crime?

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Wait, Wolf gets mugged and you blame him? I'm a libertarian and I'm not even that heartless.

 

The muggers are to blame here, and if NYC had better gun laws (i.e. made it easier for people to have and carry them) then maybe he wouldn't have been mugged. Or, maybe if those two individuals in this case had any morals about them it also wouldn't have happened.

Yeah what happened was not Wolf's fault. Not nice saying that. He could have been shot or beating the f*ck up and for what? $50? Ridiculous. NYC is a dangerous place after dark. The only thing he should learn from this is to carry a better form of protection. Like pepper spray.

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The only thing he should learn from this is to carry a better form of protection. Like pepper spray.

I hope you're not saying that using pepper spray on someone with a gun to protect 50$ is a good idea.

 

And ofcourse Wolf is not to blame for getting robbed, that other dude was and he deserves to be crucified, but he didn't handle the situation well.

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I hope you're not saying that using pepper spray on someone with a gun to protect 50$ is a good idea.

 

And ofcourse Wolf is not to blame for getting robbed, that other dude was and he deserves to be crucified, but he didn't handle the situation well.

Yeah I guess you're right. Usually though if you spray them they are blinded for a moment and wouldn't be able to aim a gun to shoot. You spray and run like hell. It's not protecting your cash, it's protecting YOURSELF from a thug with a gun.

 

How did he not handle the situation well? He handed over the money. Most people would sh*t their pants if they had a gun pointed at their head. He kept his cool and handed over the cash.

 

I'm just discouraged that Wolf is thinking that all women are like this street walker. It's kind of ridiculous. Now he wants to write off women forever? All because of a ho? Silly.:confused:

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My outlook of women has been negative for a long time, this really just cements it. ..... He's going to be banging this seemingly normal girl ("who made some bad decisions") tonight, it made me realize that there is no point in even trying.

 

 

Bummer. I know that no argument from me can counter that right now so I'll just say that I genuinely hope that good things happen for you and change your mind.

 

NYC is a dangerous place after dark.

 

Now you're over reacting.

 

if you spray them they are blinded for a moment and wouldn't be able to aim a gun to shoot. You spray and run like hell.

 

Probably a bad idea because you might end up trying to outrun a bullet...

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Well hes mad because he realizes he has never had the loyalty from a woman that the woman had for a scumbag. But he lives in NYC and i think that could be his biggest problem.

I know, but come on. It's a prostitute. They have to be loyal to their pimps or they get beaten and raped and Lord knows what else. I've seen documentaries on it. Some really hard core ones. It's a sad life that's hard to escape from.

 

Wolf will find an awesome girl someday. He's adorable first of all. He's a cool dude with a great sense of humor. He's also comes across as really intelligent for his 22 years. I always enjoy reading what he posts. I just wish he wasn't so discouraged and bitter about girls. He will find a nice one someday though. I know it. ;)

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Bummer. I know that no argument from me can counter that right now so I'll just say that I genuinely hope that good things happen for you and change your mind.

 

 

 

Now you're over reacting.

 

 

 

Probably a bad idea because you might end up trying to outrun a bullet...

Oh NYC is like Disney Land after dark right? Hence Wolf getting mugged at gun point in a dark alley?:rolleyes: Parts of NYC are very, very dangerous after dark. Wolf can attest to that, I'm sure. He's lived there all his life.

 

I'm just saying pepper spray might be a form of protection. There aren't a lot of options for him. He can't carry a gun himself or a decent knife. I was only trying to suggest other alternative forms. My bad.:o

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Make a long story short, I walk around with her and suddenly out of the ally some fat black dude about 2 times her age and told me to run my pockets. Never in a million years would I believe she would associate with someone like that. I was reaching for my knife but it's not assisted opening and the guy cocked the gun, I decided I was screwed, handed over about 50 bucks and left. Went looking for them with my friend later on to teach them a lesson but they were long gone.

 

I actually have had a very similar incident. I have briefly mentioned it in a few other threads as I was struggling to deal with it mentally.

 

My cousin and I were jumped by 6 black guys outside of a night club. They made numerous attempts to take my wallet, but I was basically able to get away. Within 5 minutes I was able to locate a police officer to report the incident. They promptly threatened to arrested us for public intoxication and fighting... if we filed a report. We were told that we could ONLY file a report if we claimed the attackers were white, latino, or asian.

 

Afterwards I just raged... and I mean I RAGED. We went back looking for those guys every weekend for a month... and we did find them again. Turns out those guys were college football players, which is why they get police protection in that area.

 

Now I'm kind of Ok with it... maybe because I got to pound the guy back, but sometimes these things happen. Life isn't fair and we just need to come to terms with that fact.

 

I remember growing up I was taught all these things about women... and honestly it was mostly lies. Learning the truth takes time... and then once you learn it you need to accept it. Once you accept it you need to figure out how to deal with it.

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It ain't Wolf18's fault that he was mugged, it's the muggers. Jeez Louise, does no one understand the concept of personal responsibility? Didn't these goons commit a crime? Isn't it incumbent on them not to commit a crime?

 

 

Not if they're black or female or any other "special" group :rolleyes:

 

These liberal losers' solution is just to run away and have entire parts of our country "off-limits" to us. How about we form our own gangs and clean up the filth? The piglice ain't doing it. But of course, if I were to be involved in something like that I would get in as much or more trouble than a guy in the Crips or MS13.

 

 

I'm just discouraged that Wolf is thinking that all women are like this street walker. It's kind of ridiculous. Now he wants to write off women forever? All because of a ho? Silly.:confused: [/Quote]

 

No, that's not why. The reason why is seeing how hard women make it for me, all the standards they want me to fill, how I got completely overlooked by some girls i really cared about yet bottom feeders have women just fall into their lap. I don't care if they're prostitutes, or what, but the fact that I've shown loyalty and love to certain women and got nothing in return while others have got to do nothing, that's just infuriating.

 

 

I know, but come on. It's a prostitute. They have to be loyal to their pimps or they get beaten and raped and Lord knows what else. I've seen documentaries on it. Some really hard core ones. It's a sad life that's hard to escape from.[/Quote]

 

 

The women want to be there, period. They are loyal and love these males.

 

Wolf will find an awesome girl someday. He's adorable first of all. He's a cool dude with a great sense of humor. He's also comes across as really intelligent for his 22 years. I always enjoy reading what he posts. I just wish he wasn't so discouraged and bitter about girls. He will find a nice one someday though. I know it. ;) [/Quote]

 

 

Those are just cliches. I probably will find a girl if I get a well paying job or leave the country, but will never have a girl love me for me like some pimp :lmao: I suppose that's how it is and we have to accept it, but no woman will ever be my moral or spiritual equal.

 

Women don't give a **** about sense of humor, intelligence, or even how "confident" you are so don't patronize me. Maybe if you want a new "friend", but that ain't going to make a woman drop her panties or think of you romantically on its own merit. All they care about is how many resources you got (whether it's money or drugs) and the "better ones" just care solely about how you look.

 

I give up until I have things that women are interested in, atleast. I don't have any right now, all I'm doing is wasting time and money going out trying to meet chicks. I don't even know if I want any thing that piques womens interests, and I have never been keen on doing anything outside of my personality so women will like me, so this may take a while or never come to fruition anyway. I'll still throw the net out in hopes some girl will be drunk enough to put out ;) but I don't know if I ever want to have "relationships" with women.

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Those are just cliches. I probably will find a girl if I get a well paying job or leave the country, but will never have a girl love me for me like some pimp :lmao: I suppose that's how it is and we have to accept it, but no woman will ever be my moral or spiritual equal.

 

What kind of job do you have now if I may ask?

 

Just wondering. Do you have any business to business sales experience or business networking experience?

 

Women don't give a **** about sense of humor, intelligence, or even how "confident" you are so don't patronize me. Maybe if you want a new "friend", but that ain't going to make a woman drop her panties or think of you romantically on its own merit. All they care about is how many resources you got (whether it's money or drugs) and the "better ones" just care solely about how you look.

 

I don't think that's true. I know some guys that have slept with hundreds of women, they're not exactly the richest guys. It's more that they don't have anything to lose and they have amazing confidence.

 

I give up until I have things that women are interested in, atleast. I don't have any right now, all I'm doing is wasting time and money going out trying to meet chicks.

 

I don't think it has to do with what women are interested in, it has to do with you feeling good about yourself.

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What kind of job do you have now if I may ask?[/Quote]

 

I do mostly oddjobs putting up sheetrock and painting. I'm also working a temporary job helping a guy whose been contracted by the UN to build orthopedic limbs for children that have stepped on landmines in the Balkans. I really like the orthopedic job and it feels satisfying, I may end up going to school after I'm done with my history degree for it, but that's going to be 4 more years of school and I don't know if I want to wait that long to fully start my life. I like what I do but it's not stable and not really enough to support myself (if I lived alone) and a woman.

 

 

Just wondering. Do you have any business to business sales experience or business networking experience?[/Quote]

 

Not really.

 

 

I don't think that's true. I know some guys that have slept with hundreds of women, they're not exactly the richest guys. It's more that they don't have anything to lose and they have amazing confidence.

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I don't know man. All of the guys I know and meet when I'm out have the same complaints as I do. Their advice is to go for women who are 16-17 (LOL) and I seem to be popular among girls in this age group that I used to meet at my old job, but that sort of feels like taking something from them when I'm so much older. I've always thought men in their 20's who go for teenage girls are losers, but women my age and older don't want anything to do with me.

 

 

I don't think it has to do with what women are interested in, it has to do with you feeling good about yourself. [/Quote]

 

 

I feel good about myself, and always have. I'm proud of who I am, but I don't feel my strong traits mean anything to women. While they'll pay lipservice to guys who have integrity, passion, or a strong will, they don't see beauty in those traits for their own sake but rather in how you apply them (they want passion for...some office job, a strong will....to get a promotion, integrity...unless the truth is politically incorrect).

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I think getting out of NYC might be the best advice. You seem to have either the extreme rich and posh areas or the extreme poor and dangerous. The middle class is an endangered species there so dating will reflect that.

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I agree Woggle , but in truth I think the real solution is leaving this fat, stupid, shallow whore of a country.

 

Living in dangerous areas is not a big deal to me to me though. I've learned a lot about society and nature that I would be ignorant of if I lived in some homogenous , upper class suburb.

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I agree Woggle , but in truth I think the real solution is leaving this fat, stupid, shallow whore of a country.

 

Living in dangerous areas is not a big deal to me to me though. I've learned a lot about society and nature that I would be ignorant of if I lived in some homogenous , upper class suburb.

 

You should look at NJ. It's a whole different world out here. I recently spend two weeks in NY staying with an uncle because we had to evacuate because of Irene and I was so glad when I returned to NJ. NY is just not what it used to be.

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Not if they're black or female or any other "special" group :rolleyes:

 

These liberal losers' solution is just to run away and have entire parts of our country "off-limits" to us. How about we form our own gangs and clean up the filth? The piglice ain't doing it. But of course, if I were to be involved in something like that I would get in as much or more trouble than a guy in the Crips or MS13.

 

 

 

 

No, that's not why. The reason why is seeing how hard women make it for me, all the standards they want me to fill, how I got completely overlooked by some girls i really cared about yet bottom feeders have women just fall into their lap. I don't care if they're prostitutes, or what, but the fact that I've shown loyalty and love to certain women and got nothing in return while others have got to do nothing, that's just infuriating.

 

 

 

 

 

The women want to be there, period. They are loyal and love these males.

 

 

 

 

Those are just cliches. I probably will find a girl if I get a well paying job or leave the country, but will never have a girl love me for me like some pimp :lmao: I suppose that's how it is and we have to accept it, but no woman will ever be my moral or spiritual equal.

 

Women don't give a **** about sense of humor, intelligence, or even how "confident" you are so don't patronize me. Maybe if you want a new "friend", but that ain't going to make a woman drop her panties or think of you romantically on its own merit. All they care about is how many resources you got (whether it's money or drugs) and the "better ones" just care solely about how you look.

 

I give up until I have things that women are interested in, atleast. I don't have any right now, all I'm doing is wasting time and money going out trying to meet chicks. I don't even know if I want any thing that piques womens interests, and I have never been keen on doing anything outside of my personality so women will like me, so this may take a while or never come to fruition anyway. I'll still throw the net out in hopes some girl will be drunk enough to put out ;) but I don't know if I ever want to have "relationships" with women.

Wolf, I'm not patronizing you. You know I'm one of the most honest bitches on these forums. You've told me yourself. You got it going on. You are good looking, intelligent and funny as hell. I'm telling you the truth. If you were good looking but vapid, you'd have a hard time finding a nice girl. You might get laid, but would you find a quality girl? Probably not. If you were busted but super smart and funny, you'd have a hard time finding a girl to just screw and to date. Yeah looks are important. You have it all though. You live in NYC. You've said yourself that the girls are uppity and full of themselves. All they care about is your wallet. You don't have a high paying job right now. So get the f*ck out of NYC. You would do great in a small town. Small town girls would love you. I'm a small town girl and I think you're great.

 

I'm being serious. I'm not just trying to make you feel good either. :)

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Wolf, I'm not patronizing you. You know I'm one of the most honest bitches on these forums. You've told me yourself. You got it going on. You are good looking, intelligent and funny as hell. I'm telling you the truth. If you were good looking but vapid, you'd have a hard time finding a nice girl. You might get laid, but would you find a quality girl? Probably not. If you were busted but super smart and funny, you'd have a hard time finding a girl to just screw and to date. Yeah looks are important. You have it all though. You live in NYC. You've said yourself that the girls are uppity and full of themselves. All they care about is your wallet. You don't have a high paying job right now. So get the f*ck out of NYC. You would do great in a small town. Small town girls would love you. I'm a small town girl and I think you're great.

 

I'm being serious. I'm not just trying to make you feel good either. :)

 

 

Oh thstopp it :o

 

You are trying to make me feel better, but I don't care i'll take it anyway :p

 

I agree with the general sentiment of leaving this place.

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Oh thstopp it :o

 

You are trying to make me feel better, but I don't care i'll take it anyway :p

 

I agree with the general sentiment of leaving this place.

Ok I am trying to make you feel better...... BUT I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH!!! I'm not just blowing smoke up your adorable little ass:p;)

 

Yeah get the hell outta dodge. Come to a small town like mine and the ladies will all love you.:love:

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Ok I am trying to make you feel better...... BUT I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH!!! I'm not just blowing smoke up your adorable little ass:p;)

 

Yeah get the hell outta dodge. Come to a small town like mine and the ladies will all love you.:love:

 

I've been to small towns before and I agree that it's a lot better.

 

Regardless, I'm going to finish the stuff I'm doing now and getting out of here when i can. Cosmopolitan life just isn't for me, it's not even just about the women.

 

the ego stroke is appreciated, *pushes taped glasses up* my lil internet girlfriend :p So when are are we throwing the Everquest marriage we've been planning?

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I've been to small towns before and I agree that it's a lot better.

 

Regardless, I'm going to finish the stuff I'm doing now and getting out of here when i can. Cosmopolitan life just isn't for me, it's not even just about the women.

 

the ego stroke is appreciated, *pushes taped glasses up* my lil internet girlfriend :p So when are are we throwing the Everquest marriage we've been planning?

I'm your lil internet admirer. :love:You know I think you're great;) I'll marry you whenever Wolfie. I do want an engagement ring first though.:p

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I'm your lil internet admirer. :love:You know I think you're great;) I'll marry you whenever Wolfie. I do want an engagement ring first though.:p

 

Alright, right now I'm a level 36 Druid , with a few hundred more quests I will be able to afford one of the Greater Faydark rings, then we will live happily ever after (in cyberspace). :D

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Alright, right now I'm a level 36 Druid , with a few hundred more quests I will be able to afford one of the Greater Faydark rings, then we will live happily ever after (in cyberspace). :D

I love you Wolfie, but I have no idea what this gaming sh*t is. I've heard of it though. A level 36 Druid? And what am I? A fair maiden or princess? I'd love to be royalty. I consider myself a queen in real life, so in gaming land I'd like to be royalty as well:D

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I love you Wolfie, but I have no idea what this gaming sh*t is. I've heard of it though. A level 36 Druid? And what am I? A fair maiden or princess? I'd love to be royalty. I consider myself a queen in real life, so in gaming land I'd like to be royalty as well:D

 

 

 

I don't really play Everquest, I enjoy some fantasy but I'd rather play a video game like Grand Theft Auto where I can roam the streets of NYC with grenades and AK47's, set off explosions then shoot rude new york archetypes in mid air like clay pidgeons. ;)

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I don't really play Everquest, I enjoy some fantasy but I'd rather play a video game like Grand Theft Auto where I can roam the streets of NYC with grenades and AK47's, set off explosions then shoot rude new york archetypes in mid air like clay pidgeons. ;)

Yeah you come across like a real gangster. :love: No wonder you love you some Easy E. Still need to change that avatar, Wolfie. I wanna see that shirtless pic of you.;)

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