A lesson I learned about women

[Wolf18]

So I go out with a friend of mine that's a drug dealer (hypothetically of course), thinking this is the last resort for picking up girls, but there's one wrench in this question...he's Asian so that might just counterbalance it He doesn't look dangerous what so ever by the way, he dresses in fancy prep clothes.

 

So we went out, and actually tried to dress like a girl-person. I wore my nicest clothes instead of my typical army jacket/bomber jacket/criminal attire. And my friend despite me not wanting it, doused me in some fancy cologne.

 

We went to a packed place, literally not a single girl looked my way (or his). Not one. What's weird on the other hand, is I don't think we were giving off unfriendly vibes, since males were talking to us at random, a weird trend I found was that I had about 4-5 males tell me that I looked like a movie star or some other outrageous compliment, yet 0 female attention 0. My friend tried to get a few chicks but they just werent interested.

 

Until about an hour in, a decent looking and normal redhaired girl in a plaid shirt, approaches me. We talk for about and hit it off pretty well, then she tells me she's got a motel room around the block she's staying in and if I wanted to join her. At first I thought it was suspicious, but then I remembered that when I was a lot more muscular this used to happen all the time.

 

Make a long story short, I walk around with her and suddenly out of the ally some fat black dude about 2 times her age and told me to run my pockets. Never in a million years would I believe she would associate with someone like that. I was reaching for my knife but it's not assisted opening and the guy cocked the gun, I decided I was screwed, handed over about 50 bucks and left. Went looking for them with my friend later on to teach them a lesson but they were long gone.

 

Moral of the story: All you guys that feel invisible to women... there are some loyal women who will risk their lives and freedom to serve you, and some are actually hot and don't care about looks, as long as you are a abusive pimp, drug dealer (unless you're asian ), or some other low life.

 

Just look at the "loverboy" epidemic in Europe, where liberal male manginas go around the world to women who are talked into becomming prostitutes by foreigners and "save them", only to find the women want to serve and are loyal to the pimp.

 

Wonderful world this is

[ShannonMI]

So I go out with a friend of mine that's a drug dealer (hypothetically of course), thinking this is the last resort for picking up girls, but there's one wrench in this question...he's Asian so that might just counterbalance it He doesn't look dangerous what so ever by the way, he dresses in fancy prep clothes.

 

So we went out, and actually tried to dress like a girl-person. I wore my nicest clothes instead of my typical army jacket/bomber jacket/criminal attire. And my friend despite me not wanting it, doused me in some fancy cologne.

 

We went to a packed place, literally not a single girl looked my way (or his). Not one. What's weird on the other hand, is I don't think we were giving off unfriendly vibes, since males were talking to us at random, a weird trend I found was that I had about 4-5 males tell me that I looked like a movie star or some other outrageous compliment, yet 0 female attention 0. My friend tried to get a few chicks but they just werent interested.

 

Until about an hour in, a decent looking and normal redhaired girl in a plaid shirt, approaches me. We talk for about and hit it off pretty well, then she tells me she's got a motel room around the block she's staying in and if I wanted to join her. At first I thought it was suspicious, but then I remembered that when I was a lot more muscular this used to happen all the time.

 

Make a long story short, I walk around with her and suddenly out of the ally some fat black dude about 2 times her age and told me to run my pockets. Never in a million years would I believe she would associate with someone like that. I was reaching for my knife but it's not assisted opening and the guy cocked the gun, I decided I was screwed, handed over about 50 bucks and left. Went looking for them with my friend later on to teach them a lesson but they were long gone.

 

Moral of the story: All you guys that feel invisible to women... there are some loyal women who will risk their lives and freedom to serve you, and some are actually hot and don't care about looks, as long as you are a abusive pimp, drug dealer (unless you're asian ), or some other low life.

 

Just look at the "loverboy" epidemic in Europe, where liberal male manginas go around the world to women who are talked into becomming prostitutes by foreigners and "save them", only to find the women want to serve and are loyal to the pimp.

 

Wonderful world this is

DAMN Wolfie thank God you didnt get hurt. What are you hanging out in Central Park? Get a better knife or hell get a gun yourself. I'm glad they didn't beat the s*t out of you. Too scary.:eek:

 

Don't take out your frustrations on that girl. She probably gets beat daily by that pimp. She serves him because she HAS to serve him or she'll get back handed or raped by him. She's probably a pathetic little runaway with parents looking for her. Sad, but most likely true.

[Nexus One]

Did you go to the police to give a description of them both? You should, as the cops should be on the lookout for them, he could end up killing someone or maybe he already did, who knows.

[Wolf18]

DAMN Wolfie thank God you didnt get hurt. What are you hanging out in Central Park? Get a better knife or hell get a gun yourself. I'm glad they didn't beat the s*t out of you. Too scary.:eek:

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No closer to midtown, actually.

 

I can't get a better knife becuse assisted opening knives get you a felony in New Yawk Shytty. If I were to get caught with something like a gun to defend myself or my friends, I would get 3-4 years in the can at the very least. Only criminals are allowed to be armed.

 

 

Don't take out your frustrations on that girl. She probably gets beat daily by that pimp. She serves him because she HAS to serve him or she'll get back handed or raped by him. She's probably a pathetic little runaway with parents looking for her. Sad, but most likely true. [/Quote]

 

Oh boo hoo, that's right women are always the victim, it's not possible that women would be some subhumans accomplice on their own will in exchange for drugs or even for nothing in return, because she's in love .

 

There are so many ways out for people like that, women who get lost into the streets or become some guys personal slave do it because they ****ing want to. If she's a runaway there are countless guys like even me who will take her in... without raping her or beating her. Why is it so hard to believe what people have known through out history, that women are masochists and enjoy it?

 

If I ever see her again, I'm going to be the one who back hands her. Don't come to me with these sob stories.

[Woggle]

I would never abuse a woman myself but having been on the streets taught me that many women in abusive situations have some sick addiction to being treated that way. They will lay down in the road and die for these men.

 

Talk to any cop and they hate responding to domestic abuse situations because in many cases as soon as they handcuff the guy the woman starts trying to fight them.

 

I think help should be available for women who want it but you can't save them from themselves.

[Wolf18]

Did you go to the police to give a description of them both? You should, as the cops should be on the lookout for them, he could end up killing someone or maybe he already did, who knows.

 

 

I don't generally deal with the police here, first because my friend had warrants out, and second because the piglice don't do anything except eat donuts and hang out at 7/11.

 

I deal with my own problems, calling the police makes me feel emasculated.

[Wolf18]

I would never abuse a woman myself but having been on the streets taught me that many women in abusive situations have some sick addiction to being treated that way. They will lay down in the road and die for these men.

 

Talk to any cop and they hate responding to domestic abuse situations because in many cases as soon as they handcuff the guy the woman starts trying to fight them.

 

I think help should be available for women who want it but you can't save them from themselves.

 

Of course, but women are always the victim no matter what. And if a woman is an accomplice to some guy robbing me of all my booze and food money for the next week, I'm supposed to cry for her because women are never accountable.

 

She's probably getting high off my money right now, aww she's got such a horrible life .

Edited December 3, 2011 by Wolf18

[Woggle]

I can say I have never had a woman rob me. A man tried to rob me. The key word is tried. I bet he won't try it again.

[Wolf18]

Well I just give up.

 

I'm not perfect but I do my best to do the right thing. Not in some lame "I'm a Nice Guy" way, but really try to live a life with honor. The last girl I knew spent so much 1 on 1 time with me that she was almost living with me, didn't like me in "that" way for not having a car or a better job, and yet some guy whose barely got 2 bags of crack to rub together, has got a cute girl willing to risk her life and freedom for him.

 

What is the point? I might stay on this forum to mess around, but I'm done with "dating" for good. I'd rather sit home and jack off than deal with another woman.

[Woggle]

Maybe you should stop trying to date crackheads.

[Nexus One]

I deal with my own problems, calling the police makes me feel emasculated.

 

Except this isn't only about you, the guy can kill someone. The police generally have a number where you can call them anonymously to tip them off. I'd say tip them off and give a description of the two. That way you'll keep your friend in the clear and at the same time warn the cops, so that at least they'll know about what happened. What they'll do with that information after that is out of your hands anyway, but at least you did what you could within reasonable boundaries.

[Nexus One]

I deal with my own problems, calling the police makes me feel emasculated.

 

Except this isn't only about you or about pride, the guy can kill someone. The police generally have a number where you can call them anonymously to tip them off. I'd say tip them off and give a description of the two. That way you'll keep your friend in the clear and at the same time warn the cops, so that at least they'll know about what happened and where it happened. What they'll do with that information is out of your hands anyway, but at least you did what you could within reasonable boundaries.

[Jynxx]

IF this story is true, you must be clinically retarded, OP. You have 50$ on you and you're planning to fight someone off for it? Even if you come out the winner 90% of the time, which I highly doubt with how clumsy the knife situation went, you'll end up getting beat up or much worse 10% of the time. Is that worth it for 50$? You're getting robbed, cut your losses and move on, literally and figuratively, and think about how you will avoid getting in that position in the future.

 

@Woggle: Just keep being the internet tough guy, leave being the irl tough guy for others.

[Nexus One]

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[Wolf18]

Thanks for the advice woggle. I would've never imagined this reasonably intelligent and attractive girl would even be involved in something like this. What is frustrating to is the contrast, doing my best to be decent and I've never felt any woman have this kind of loyalty for me.

 

Except this isn't only about you, the guy can kill someone. The police generally have a number where you can call them anonymously to tip them off. I'd say tip them off and give a description of the two. That way you'll keep your friend in the clear and at the same time warn the cops, so that at least they'll know about what happened. What they'll do with that information after that is out of your hands anyway, but at least you did what you could within reasonable boundaries. [/Quote]

 

That's not a bad idea .

 

IF this story is true, you must be clinically retarded, OP. You have 50$ on you and you're planning to fight someone off for it? Even if you come out the winner 90% of the time, which I highly doubt with how clumsy the knife situation went, you'll end up getting beat up or much worse 10% of the time. Is that worth it for 50$? You're getting robbed, cut your losses and move on, literally and figuratively, and think about how you will avoid getting in that position in the future.

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If you want to be afraid of everything that's your problem. But if you want to steal from me you're taking a gamble too. It's not about 50 dollars, it's about the damn principle and my machismo!

 

I'll admit I was a little nervous, who the **** wouldn't be if you had a gun on you. I was trying to open my blade in my pocket, he saw me reaching and cocked the gun, so I cut my losses. He didn't take my credit cards atleast lol.

 

But if you're going to let just anyone rob you then you don't deserve to have anything. The world (and the women) belongs to the strong. I lived in a pretty bad part of town until I was maybe 14-15, so I'm used to fighting since I was young.

[Cracker Jack]

That's pretty messed up. One of the reasons why I don't trust any strangers.

[Feelsgoodman]

Don't take out your frustrations on that girl. She probably gets beat daily by that pimp. She serves him because she HAS to serve him or she'll get back handed or raped by him. She's probably a pathetic little runaway with parents looking for her. Sad, but most likely true.

Right, because a woman can get her husband arrested in a flash on allegations of domestic violence but she can't go to the police and complain that a criminal pimp is raping and beating her up daily

[Feelsgoodman]

The lesson you should have learned is that appearances can be deceiving. A woman could look perfectly normal/down to earth and yet be total lowlife scumbag beneath that facade. Spoken from experience.

[Jynxx]

If you want to be afraid of everything that's your problem. But if you want to steal from me you're taking a gamble too. It's not about 50 dollars, it's about the damn principle and my machismo!

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But if you're going to let just anyone rob you then you don't deserve to have anything. The world (and the women) belongs to the strong.

 

This dude is risking 5(?) years in jail if it goes wrong and winning 200(?)$ on average per victim. I hope you see how someone taking those odds isn't a rational person, thus capable of nearly anything, and while I have no numbers on how often something like this results in physical damage, I would be surprised if it was rare.

 

So you don't mind having a decent chance of getting beaten up/stabbed/shot in return for what exactly? Beating up or stabbing some crackhead? How exactly does that improve your life? You'll feel like a macho? You'll be able to brag about it? You'll get to beat up a criminal? Are you hoping he'll tell his crackhead friends to not try to rob you?

 

The world doesn't belong to the strong, and neither do the women. Let me tell you something I figured out when I was in my late teens. Winning at life isn't about winning some battles where you were a favourite but had nothing to win and a whole lot to lose. Winning at life is about picking your battles wisely and crushing your opponent when it matters. That's how you get succesfull, confident and Alpha, and that in turn is what attracts women. The second you were isolated and confronted with the guy you had already lost because you were in a bad battle. As I said, you cut your losses and move on.

 

And then I even overlooked the brilliant idea of 2 unarmed guys going out looking for a carrying criminal who just robbed you, planning to try and teach him a lesson. Keep it up, you're on pace for a Darwin Award.

[Feelsgoodman]

Jynxx, you are a female, right? Before you go off on the OP like that, maybe you should try to learn a thing or two about the male psyche. What you don't understand is just how embarrassing and humiliating it is for a man to be a helpless victim in a situation like that. It can literally mess up a man's confidence and self-esteem for the rest of his life.

 

It's like telling a woman that she should not resist when she's being raped. After all, she has sex all the time, what's the big deal if it's not consensual? It's not something that's worth risking your life over

[Jynxx]

Jynxx, you are a female, right?

 

Have to disappoint you on that.

What you don't understand is just how embarrassing and humiliating it is for a man to be a helpless victim in a situation like that. It can literally mess up a man's confidence and self-esteem for the rest of his life.

Don't get me wrong, it's a bad spot and I would feel terrible at the moment. But you have to control your emotions and let go of your ego, like I'm convinced you should try to do in most of lifes situations. And you probably won't feel good about it afterwards for a while, but for the rest of your life? You have to evaluate the situation, decide what you did right and what you did wrong, figure out how to avoid it in the future and if that fails think of how to handle it better next time, then try to let go of it. Winners aren't the ones that never lose a game, but the ones that don't let losing a game affect their confidence.

[ShannonMI]

No closer to midtown, actually.

 

I can't get a better knife because assisted opening knives get you a felony in New Yawk Shytty. If I were to get caught with something like a gun to defend myself or my friends, I would get 3-4 years in the can at the very least. Only criminals are allowed to be armed.

 

 

 

 

Oh boo hoo, that's right women are always the victim, it's not possible that women would be some subhumans accomplice on their own will in exchange for drugs or even for nothing in return, because she's in love .

 

There are so many ways out for people like that, women who get lost into the streets or become some guys personal slave do it because they ****ing want to. If she's a runaway there are countless guys like even me who will take her in... without raping her or beating her. Why is it so hard to believe what people have known through out history, that women are masochists and enjoy it?

 

If I ever see her again, I'm going to be the one who back hands her. Don't come to me with these sob stories.

So having a small fire arm that you have a permit for is illegal? On the streets of NY people should be able to carry weapons for self defense. Of ALL places NY should allow it. NYC at night can be f*cking scary. Central Park is one of the worst places after dark. Pepper spray is another thing you could use, but you don't strike me as a pepper spray type of dude. That's more for women.

 

You have no idea what that girl's story is. The dynamic of a pimp and his ho can be a complicated one. She could very well be a runaway and forced into prostitution. Does she WANT to do it? God, I hope not. Those pimps are horrible to their girls. I've seen shows on it. They are beaten and raped and they literally have no control of what goes on in their lives. But think what you want, Wolfie. Not all of us women are hos out to rob guys on the streets of NYC. Don't write us all off quite yet.

[ShannonMI]

Right, because a woman can get her husband arrested in a flash on allegations of domestic violence but she can't go to the police and complain that a criminal pimp is raping and beating her up daily

Oh sure she could go, but is she going to? Probably not because the pimp has threatened her countless times. It's like the little kid that's molested and is told not to tell anyone or she will be killed. They don't do it because they are scared to death. Those pimps have a lot of power over those girls.

Edited December 4, 2011 by ShannonMI

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Wolf18, I'm glad you made it out of the situation alive. But lets think about this logically. Do you really want to be with the type of woman, no matter her good looks, that pulls petty crimes with men? Wouldn't that be like me saying that becaue you encountered a low life abusive pimp drug dealer that that's what most men are like? There are many emotionally damanged women out there. You need to look for the emotionally healthy ones. I also don't consider this woman a victim as far as what she did to you. She might be a victim in how she is treated but she has total responsibility to pulling crap like that. But please don't insist that the moral of this story that most women are like the one you encountered. Just like I won't assume most men are like the man you also encountered in this situation.

[Wolf18]

This dude is risking 5(?) years in jail if it goes wrong and winning 200(?)$ on average per victim. I hope you see how someone taking those odds isn't a rational person, thus capable of nearly anything, and while I have no numbers on how often something like this results in physical damage, I would be surprised if it was rare.

 

So you don't mind having a decent chance of getting beaten up/stabbed/shot in return for what exactly? Beating up or stabbing some crackhead? How exactly does that improve your life? You'll feel like a macho? You'll be able to brag about it? You'll get to beat up a criminal? Are you hoping he'll tell his crackhead friends to not try to rob you?

 

The world doesn't belong to the strong, and neither do the women. Let me tell you something I figured out when I was in my late teens. Winning at life isn't about winning some battles where you were a favourite but had nothing to win and a whole lot to lose. Winning at life is about picking your battles wisely and crushing your opponent when it matters. That's how you get succesfull, confident and Alpha, and that in turn is what attracts women. The second you were isolated and confronted with the guy you had already lost because you were in a bad battle. As I said, you cut your losses and move on.

 

And then I even overlooked the brilliant idea of 2 unarmed guys going out looking for a carrying criminal who just robbed you, planning to try and teach him a lesson. Keep it up, you're on pace for a Darwin Award.

 

 

I would say it's possible that he's making 500-1,000 dollars a person in jewelry, cameras, and money because I was in the fancy/touristy part of town. I was dressed nicely so they probably assumed i was loaded lol .

 

We will have to agree to disagree on everything else.

 

 

The lesson you should have learned is that appearances can be deceiving. A woman could look perfectly normal/down to earth and yet be total lowlife scumbag beneath that facade. Spoken from experience[/Quote]

 

The quieter and more timid they look, the worse they are, in my experience.

 

Ever play the game Hitman: Blood Money? Every time you listen to a woman in that game, you end up dying or with a knife in the back

 

So having a small fire arm that you have a permit for is illegal? On the streets of NY people should be able to carry weapons for self defense. Of ALL places NY should allow it. NYC at night can be f*cking scary. Central Park is one of the worst places after dark. Pepper spray is another thing you could use, but you don't strike me as a pepper spray type of dude. That's more for women.[/Quote]

 

Getting a handgun permit in NYC is next to impossible.

 

I used to carry brass knuckles, and the stupid government made it a felony. Had a knife that was not automatic, but very easy to open, then I read about bogus NYC "gravity knife" laws. There are very few ways to defend yourself.

 

 

You have no idea what that girl's story is. The dynamic of a pimp and his ho can be a complicated one. She could very well be a runaway and forced into prostitution. Does she WANT to do it? God, I hope not. Those pimps are horrible to their girls. I've seen shows on it. They are beaten and raped and they literally have no control of what goes on in their lives. But think what you want, Wolfie. Not all of us women are hos out to rob guys on the streets of NYC. Don't write us all off quite yet. [/Quote]

 

 

 

Nobody ever talks about HOW these women become sex slaves though. The reality is that these women LOVE these abusive males and would do anything to serve them. Women do this without being asked, if they truly love a man.

 

There are countless people who try to "save" these women , only to find out that they end up going back on their own free will.

 

Like FGM said, all a woman needs to do to put her husband away for domestic abuse...is make a phone call. With all the millions of dollars in bloated federal spending dedicated to getting women out of this life, there is just no excuse anymore.

 

 

I bet you a thousand bucks most of these women are there