irc333 Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I am finding this a lot more common these days, seems people in relationships or actively dating seem to create their own "grey" areas, esp. when they explain themselves leaving the other wondering if they are on the SAME page or completely opposite pages. Or people are just coming up with excuses for their inexcusable behavior. For instance, married people who are separated, but never divorced and has no plans on divorcing. They start dating other people not only THAT start getting serious with someone, have KIDS by them, while they're still married tot he previous spouse. Quite sickening when you hear about it. Reason I heard about this, is because a friend of mine was talking to his friend, and THAT friend's daughter was living with a married man, having live-in exclusive partnership, even had a couple of kids together, then the father of that woman said her boyfriend had to fly to see his "wife" because she had gotten sick or something. My friend/neighbor looked at the father funny, and was like "whaaa?" Then he say to me, "Man, people are pigs today". He's one of those old-fashioned people that just can't believe how people can be so cavelier about it. Like in my situation in a previous post, me asking out a woman when she said she was seeing someone romantically, but was open to going out with me as a friend, someone here indicated that doesn't mean anything. "Seeing someone romantically" means they're with each other exclusively, or could be construed as a relationship. Which rationalizes their ability to see a man on the side, play games, and mess with other peoples hearts. Or just outright lying. Kind of like the whole Bill Clinton situation when he fooled around with the intern. He was wanting know what he definition of "is" is. That's where people are grabbing at straws to the point where a 2 year old couldn't even fall for that excuse.
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