Hp1991 Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Hi , I had a situation yesterday which resulted in my partner and I getting into a massive fight. I have no idea how it could have escalated to this and completely baffled by the comments he made. What happened was I was busy calling up insurance companies to get a quote yesterday morning and I landed with one agent from a company who was abit over friendly. I had already gone through the routine questions over and over again with 6 different agents that I thought maybe I can speak alittle more than just being interrogated. The guy asked his routine questions and I answered them. It was ultimately surprising to find that he attended the same university as I and was in the same program. At first I didn't believe him and continued the questions and we would make little comments about the school. ex. how if you park you get tickets. I honestly just wanted to talk not simply bore myself with the same questions. After abit he would comment more and I simply asked " are you allowed to do this ...aren't you my quoter?...." and he ended up asking me to search him on facebook. I then got transfered and left it at that. I told my partner how it was a funny story and how I searched him up to see if he was real. and it all went downhill from there. He completely blew up at me . Literally. I honestly have no idea of hooking up with other guys. This agent just intrigued me and made me curious. Nothing more...I didn't even have an idea of adding him or messaging him. Other than the fact he was selling his textbooks and I would need them this coming semester. But no I left it at that and holy I got flamed. My partner went off the walls. He said I was just low to have done that. Completely low of myself. To flirt and the look up the guy as if I was interested. How could he trust me to not to that with other people. I should have kept it business related. I needed to have better morals. What I did was wrong. There was so much said about myself needing to be improved that I was stunned. Okay I understand that I had probably spoken abit more than necessary to the agent. I get that. Then looking him up out of curiosity wasn't necessary either. But I honestly had no intention of going out and meeting the guy. I didn't initiate any contact also the guy wouldn't be able to find me anyways since my fb account it closed off to everyone. I wasn't at all looking to hook up, I was curious and this has landed me in soup. I dont remember but he had said there was another time this happened and I didn't learn from it..What the hell. Am I completely wrong to think I did nothing majorly wrong? Let me know because this went on to leading to us to breaking up. Urgh . I feel like I'm in caveman times where I can't even talk to anyone . I like to talk to people and lately I haven't even been socializing for the past year and half due to keeping modest relationships with guys. I have alot of guy friends who would want to go out and I don't because of my bf. I don't have many girl friends...literally maybe a handful that I'm close with. I feel like I'm turning into a hermit crab going home and school and work. I don't talk to anyone at school anymore. I don't call anyone other than 3 friends of mine. And I tell my bf everything. Every single thing. I can't keep it to myself. He's 29 in 2 months and I'm 20 . Where did I go wrong in this?
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