DontWorryBHappy Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 (edited) so my ex and i were talking again and it was cool. I'm moving so i suggested we write letters to each other and he seemed all for it. he even said he sent me his first letter, and i sent him one. But suddenly he stopped replying to my texts, and i never got any letter, so i sent him a few messages. First i was asking if he was alright.. But that turned to asking if he was ignoring me. I suspected i was being ignored.. But to prove it, i found a way to send free anonymous texts online from a username. So i made a fake username and texted him.. Lo and behold, he ignores me, but replies to fake me, asking who i am. I havent told him who i am yet.. But when i do it will probably be for the purpose of telling him to go die in a grease fire. Childish? Maybe. But i dont care... Tired of getting ****ed over. Will update. Edited December 3, 2011 by DontWorryBHappy
Author DontWorryBHappy Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 actually, now that i know for sure he is ignoring me, should i just let it go? Maybe it would be lame to be all "haha i caught you being an *******!". Maybe i should just be satisfied with knowing that internally and let it go.
BardoPond Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Honestly? You're probably better off just moving on, letting him know he's been caught out won't do anything for you except maybe a laugh at the time but all it will really do is make you want to tell him that you forgive him for it down the line. If this is the way he wants to act, then just leave him to it.
Author DontWorryBHappy Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 well i ended up telling him who i was, and a few other choice words. Then he said he hadn't been ignoring me. Said he got a message of mine but assumed i received his letter so he didn't reply, and said if i believe he's lying then that's what i'll believe. This confuses me, because i sent him several messages over several days, asking if he was alright, asking if he was still talking to me, and a facebook message where i told him i hadnt received his letter. I questioned whether he was receiving my texts.. But i set my phone this morning to show me a delivery report of texts, and it showed successful delivery when i texted him today from my regular number. So it still doesnt seem to add up.. He still didnt respond to a text from me last night asking why he wasnt speaking to me, but responded to a fake one from last night with the username. But just in case im wrong, i told him that if hes telling the truth, then im sorry for what i said. Either way, i know i cant talk to him. I'm too sensitive about stuff having to do with him. I may never figure out what really happened here or know what to believe.
M2155 Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 A relationship that is nothing but questions, is not a realtionship. Stop trying to prove anything, if the dude wants to be with you, he will make the effort. You are trying way too hard.
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