DannyT27 Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Hi most of you already knw my story, but if you dnt basicly my gf of 5.5 yrs left me just I've a month ago she said it wasn't me it was her and that she wanted to be single, but abt aweek later I found out she's in a relationship with sum1 10 yrs older.. It's now been almost a month of NC and I'm worried for her as I've heard she's drinking almost every night or every otha night, and could very well be taking drugs such as coke aswel.. I was speaking to a bloke I knw the other day and he said that he saw her outside the pub and she looked a mess. I dnt want her to end up like a junkie as in my eyes she's beutiful. I knw it's none of my business but I can't help but care... Should I say something ? Cheers
Bazamu Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I wouldn't say anything. Move on to the next relationship. She has moved on as we all can see. Sorry to be negative, but something like this happened to me recently and the last straw was pulled. That's why I am a little negative about your situation. If you really cared, just ask her and express your feelings, if it doesn't work. Try to find a better you.
silly_panda Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 What and who she gets involve in/with is not your problem anymore... I know this sound cruel... But it's really non of your concern and there is nothing you could really do... About her drinking a lot and maybe taking drugs, how sure are you she is really doing that..? Even if it's true, I don't think there is anything you could do to stop her... I know it hurts to see someone you love hurt themselve like this, but that's their choice... They chose not to love themselve... If you really wanna help, get a mutual friend who you can trust and try to find out what's happening... If her recent activities are true, get her family or best friend to help out... After that, just leave it as that... You had done your very best...
Author DannyT27 Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 Thanks for your advice... I really do still care for her and I knw it's GIGS she's got... And I knw she will regret what she's done one day. But as for now I'll just leave her to it it's her life at the end of the day...
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