Shaun-Dro Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I have only ever heard women complaining about wanting a man who knows how to 'treat a woman right'. But I never heard of a man who demands the same. Is it because men are more selfless and think less about taking while thinking more about giving? No, it's because we're living in a mostly anti-man society where women want their cake and to eat it too. They're this way with everything now.
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I treat my husband "right." He's very happy. Of course, he is also happy to treat me right. It's probably mostly guys like him, who are ready to give as well as to receive, who are enjoying being treated well by a loving woman. A couple of you might want to try it some time.
Feelsgoodman Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 No, it's because we're living in a mostly anti-man society where women want their cake and to eat it too. They're this way with everything now. Yes, and we are living in this mostly anti-man society because we have allowed spineless momma's boys to be running our government. Feminism would be nowhere without its male enablers. Feminism is a crime against humanity, and men are just as responsible for it as women.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Oh, I see, the masterful "your friend banged a stripper so your claims about feminism have no merit" response. Never seen anything like -that- here on LS before. See guys, whenever the stale old gender polarizing, victimization poison that has caused so much damage in our social structure is questioned, ad hominem fallacies are all they have in response. Did you not previously say you have friends that bang strippers and do stuff behind their partner's back? Sheesh..you said that. Not me.
dasein Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Did you not previously say you have friends that bang strippers and do stuff behind their partner's back? Sheesh..you said that. Not me. Get back to me when you understand what an ad hominem fallacy is and why it isn't a valid response to those with whom you disagree.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Get back to me when you've weened yourself off the teat of the Male Right Movement's Kool aid filled breast.
dasein Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Get back to me when you've weened yourself off the teat of the Male Right Movement's Kool aid filled breast. See guys, whoever disagrees with them is part of some "Male Right Movement" (sic) instead of just one of millions of people, both men and women, who are fed up with listening to feminist lies for decades. Note the lack of any substantive response to my posts. They simply can't deal with legitimate history that contradicts their revisionist myths. Who's swilling that koolaid and been forcing us to drink it for 50 years? It ain't me.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Via La Revolution! I got to say Dasien, I've had more fun with you in this thread then ever before. It's much more fun to egg you on then attempt to debate points with you where we both know neither of us are going to budge on.
joystickd Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Did you not previously say you have friends that bang strippers and do stuff behind their partner's back? Sheesh..you said that. Not me. Lol. All you can do is hurl something about his friends he got you good.
Ilovewater Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Both partners should treat each other right. A relationship is a partnership where two people take care of each other. When it's just one person taking care of the other, that's not a relationship. That's just someone willing to be a doormat. If either partner feels he/she is not treated respectfully, speak up!
nofool4u Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 I have only ever heard women complaining about wanting a man who knows how to 'treat a woman right'. But I never heard of a man who demands the same. Is it because men are more selfless and think less about taking while thinking more about giving? You know, I've noticed this. I read a thread where when asked what the woman thought the man should get in return for treating her right, and you know what her answer was? "Me!" As if all she had to do was sit there, become the recipient of all the man's considerations, and just being with her was reward enough. That and sex, which she got from him as well. I think alot of women think this way.
Author musemaj11 Posted December 6, 2011 Author Posted December 6, 2011 You know, I've noticed this. I read a thread where when asked what the woman thought the man should get in return for treating her right, and you know what her answer was? "Me!" As if all she had to do was sit there, become the recipient of all the man's considerations, and just being with her was reward enough. That and sex, which she got from him as well. I think alot of women think this way. When a man loves a woman, he treasures her. While when a woman loves a man, its because he treasures her. For a man to love is to give, while for a woman to love is to receive.
carhill Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 I don't think all women are like that, but I have experienced an inordinate amount who 'let me love them'. 'Carhill, you have my permission to love me. My appreciation for that love will vary with my mood'
Woggle Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 I don't think all women are like that, but I have experienced an inordinate amount who 'let me love them'. 'Carhill, you have my permission to love me. My appreciation for that love will vary with my mood' I say no thanks to these types.
carhill Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 I would too but they never approach it from that standpoint of directness. It's nebulous. However, in my past life, I gave too much 'benefit of the doubt' to the canaries falling from their perches seemingly without reason. Therapy fixed that.
Woggle Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 I would too but they never approach it from that standpoint of directness. It's nebulous. However, in my past life, I gave too much 'benefit of the doubt' to the canaries falling from their perches seemingly without reason. Therapy fixed that. You can see the signs if you know what to look for.
lululucy Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 This is making me depressed for my gender. I think I'm just blessed with friends that are all incredibly grounded, wonderful people and I miss out on the crazies. By no means to I agree that this is a sweeping rule, but there are plenty of users out there.
betterdeal Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 Just did a search for "Treating a man right", and Google says "About 376,000,000 results (0.20 seconds)" It's out there
carhill Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 You can see the signs if you know what to look for. Yep, I did but didn't believe the canaries (what to look for) when they fell. I had to unwire and then rewire some of my socialization first. Then, subsequent, it became a seamless process of seeing, believing and acting with confidence on that information contemporaneously. We come from very different backgrounds so the processes were/are necessarily different.
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