YuGr. Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Simple question mostly dedicated to girls (17-24) Do you have any tips or suggestions as to how to approach a girls on the metro? I see women I'd love to ask out or talk to but I constantly feel like it would come off as creepy. Also that everyone on the metro have a destination, therefore it adds the challenge to get a first and last name or a number in a very short amount of time. Tips people?
phineas Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Metro sexual's ARE creepy. Stop moisturizing & using hair gel, you'll do much better.
Author YuGr. Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 Wow you're one idiot aren't you? The hell out of here already..
Eeyore79 Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 (edited) I'd generally say it isn't ideal to approach women in an enclosed space. The average man doesn't appreciate how the average woman is constantly aware of safety - an approach on the metro is nerve racking because she can't escape, so she's immediately on guard, making your job that much harder. Never approach a woman if there's nobody else in the carriage, or if it's virtually empty - you will totally freak her out. If there are plenty of other people around then she'll feel a bit safer and will probably respond better. Take notice of her body language - if she ignores you, looks away, crosses her legs, focuses on her book - leave her alone. She can't walk away from you, and if you persist you'll make her uncomfortable. I'd say an open, chatty approach is best - maybe sit in a nearby seat but not right next to her, or stand in front of her and speak over your shoulder (which for some reason seems less threatening). Just make normal conversation, and continue if she seems responsive. If it goes well, ask where she's going, so you know how long you have to get her number. A few minutes before she gets off, say you enjoyed talking and you'd like to continue the conversation some other time, maybe over coffee? Or (this may be better) give her a bit of paper and a pen, tell her you (or she) is getting off in a minute, and is there anything she'd like to write for you? My friend says that the best way to get a girl's number is by not asking for it directly, so she makes the decision to give it to you Don't do the "You're so beautiful I had to talk to you" approach; you will totally put her on guard by displaying sexual interest in an enclosed space. Casual and chatty is the best way imo. Good luck Edited December 3, 2011 by Eeyore79
renata Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Agree with the poster above. However, I wouldn't necessarily ask her where she's getting off, for the simple reason that she may decide to get off at the next stop just to get away from you...which would be even more awkward for her if she's already told you she's getting off at another stop.
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