jnub09 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Well i had a girl in the palm of my hands but I got too excited and "needy". I realized what I did wrong, and I wish I could start over. I have backed off tremendously over the past two weeks. Is there anyway that I can lose that label with her?
ditzchic Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 (edited) First, define "clingy". Like the normal kind of clingy where you call too much and always want to hang out with her? Or the psycho kind where you find yourself sitting on her doorstep in the middle of the night and watching her while she sleeps? I hate to say this but I agree with SourDee's sentiment. If a girl is really into you being clingy is acceptable. Assuming it's the normal kind and not the stalker kind. I'm on of the most independent non-clingy women you could meet and I've tried my hand with a clinger or two just because I was really into some other aspect of their personality. Hell, one of them was so clingy and needy he was upset that I didn't sleep facing him our first night together. You make sacrifices when you're into someone. When you're not into them you make excuses. The "you're too clingy" thing is usually an excuse. Also, what if you're just an easily excitable guy who likes spending time, being in contact and sharing your life with the girl you're seeing. That doesn't make you defective. If she isn't into someone like that you guys may just be incompatible. Edited December 3, 2011 by ditzchic
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