Soxfaninfl Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I just started seeing this girl two months ago, and things are going really well. We are the same age pretty much I'm 36 and she is 37. The sex is amazing, and we have allot in common. We like spending time with each other. I'm currently living with my parents 60 miles away from her. Since it's highway driving, it only take me an hour to get to her when I come to see her. We met online. I usually stay with her when I don't have my son. I have my son every other week. I don't see her when I have my son. She just bought her home a year ago, and it's a nice house. Her mom and dad only live two streets away. She wants to eventually get married and have children which is what I also want. My dilemma is, I have to stay close to my son's mother to maintain 50/50 time sharing of our son, so moving in with her in the future will be out of the question if I want to still have my son 50% of the time. I live in Largo, FL and my ex-wife lives in Seminole, FL. We both work at the same company in Oldsmar, FL for those of you Florida people will know the locations. My new girl friend lives in lake-land, FL and her job is 30 minutes away in the opposite direction of where I live. My problem is when should I bring up the location issue? I know we've only been dating only two months, but eventually this will be a problem if we want to move in together. I plan to live with my parents for a year to recover from an expensive divorce. After that I planned to live on my own in the Tampa area near my job in Oldsmar. I had plan to move 30 minutes to 40 minutes away from her and still be a half hour away from my ex-wife. Should I wait to talk about this until we are in love or the relationship becomes more serious? She is meeting my parents and son this weekend for the first time. I have met her parents and spent Thanksgiving with her and her family. Any advice would be appreciated.
FitChick Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 If she already bought a house, she can't very well sell it for a new boyfriend. See how things go for now but let her know your concerns expressed here. Anything could happen. Don't get her pregnant!
Author Soxfaninfl Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 If she already bought a house, she can't very well sell it for a new boyfriend. See how things go for now but let her know your concerns expressed here. Anything could happen. Don't get her pregnant! She did say that she eventually wants to buy a bigger home, so maybe when we are going to move in together if it's meant to be we will do that together. I always wear a condom. I'm not taking any chances and having unprotected sex and knocking her up. I want to be married when I have more kids.
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