RiverRunning Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 What did you do and how did you feel...that made you realize that you had fallen out of love with your ex? How long did this go on until you left the relationship?
robaday Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I was still in love when i broke it off. My reasons were we were both unhappy. the last night we spent together involved the worst name-calling/insults, verbal abuse on both sides that i have ever experienced. i realized at that point, when we were stooping to low level insults that there was limited respect left. i realized that breaking it off might preserve some kind of friendship, or at least some respect for each other. I realized that life was too short to spend arguing, and we were going to cause each other long term harm. I still love her and miss her. But I wont be going back. Im grateful for the good times, but the last 2 months were hell.
bbronco Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I was and still am in love..but the decision to dump him developed over a period of 4 months. I felt like I was being treated no different than how he'd treat me if we were just friends, or how he'd treat my girlfriends. I didn't feel like his special lady and that pretty much dulled the spark for me. Don't ask me why I want him back though..it seems I've forgotten how complacent he was with our relationship!
sardeen Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I really do not believe in falling out of love, I believe that people either take too long to realize they were never really in love or lie to themselves. I feel my ex took a long time to realize that what she was feeling was not love. Someone who loves you does not just block you from their lives and ignores you without letting you explain yourself. If that is love, I do not want any part of it.
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