jk Posted May 27, 2004 Posted May 27, 2004 My bf and I were initially on a "break" for a little over 2 weeks- he said he needed some space so I gave it to him. Yesterday I wrote him this nasty e-mail, regretted it, and so I logged onto his e-mail account ( I know, a major no- no) to delete my e-mail. Much to my surprise, I found an e-mail he had written to his co-worker at work. He even used the same pick up line on her as he did on me when we first started dating. I was furious! It was a very flirtatious message and I never thought he would disrespect me like that. Last night, after my anger had considerably subsided, I went to his house to confront him about it. I asked him if he was seeing anyone at work. He denied it. I asked him if he was interested or flirting around with anyone. He denied it again. So I straight out told him that I knew, and that I had read the e-mail. He laughed it off, saying that it was her that liked him, that he was just "playing" around with her. That sickened me and immediately led me to realize that my bf was not who I thought he was. He had changed a lot in these past 2 years and 10 months. We talked for over 2.5 hours about if our relationship was worth saving. He said that at one time he had really loved me, but he had lost that feeling over time and that sense of commitment. In short, he was afraid of commitment. He told me that he didn't want to lose me, but that's only because he wants me to stick around so I can help him finish school. After talking to my friend, who admitted that he had changed from the nice, caring guy he once was, I made up my mind today that I'm going to dump him. He is being such a selfish jerk, and he doesn't appreciate all I've done for him these past few years. He's taking me for granted and I feel like he's simply testing me to see if I will really hang around and wait for him. But now I realize that he is no good for me and it is really time for me to move on.
MeLiSsABaLl Posted May 27, 2004 Posted May 27, 2004 i think u have decided to do the best thing. it sounds like he does take u for granted and being as he didnt have the courage to tell u he didnt love u as much as he used to proves how much of a coward he is. somewhere out there is someone who will always want to be with you and would never mess around in any way wiv co workers.
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