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Well in brief, my ex gf broke up with me in june 2011,

we had a 5 yr relationship no major tiffs etc.

She moved to this country to be with me, started a new job etc, I am a student at the moment. It all worked fine, we both tried to get out foot on the ground, iot was a new town for both of us.

 

Suddenly she breaks up with me, apparently she got attracted to her new boss, who didn't get promoted but decided to move to his country (switzerland) at that time she started intesively entertaining that idea.

 

I asked her that when she broke up with me igf she is movin she said no (bs). Btw her boss is married and got a baby in april. She decides to chase him apparently and I think (bc I have been NC with her all this time) she is going to move to that country too, when I don't know.

 

I am meeting some of our friends tonight, that I haven't seen since the bu, maybe they give me some info, I won't specifically ask for it.

 

I had her blocked on fb the whole time, just unblocked her and found out she has deleted me, fine. I wasn't the cause of the bu, I think is more gigs big time.

 

She was already married once before, which ended abruptly after 3 years. We have known eachother for a very long time before that.

She has controlling parents (btw she is 35) and they were in full support of the bu, they came this year form a different to stay for the whole six months. Her dad just made an announcement how he landed back in his country after more than six months he is back but already has plans for the next year.

I didn't wish her happy b-d, but send her a text at 5 moths mark and asked her if she wanted to talk, she just said she hopes I am doing fine at school, so obviously she didn't want to talk, it was before her b-d.

 

I am mostly basing this on assumptions right now (that she may change country etc)...

 

Am am interested, what do you guys make out of my situation?

 

Thank you very much

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guys need your opinions please.

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no one for input?

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guys need your opinions please.

 

Your story strikes a nerve with me. My ex left for her boss too. What's up with that crap. Why can't people be happy with what they have? Every relationship takes work. My story

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t302201/

 

They will eventually be very sorry for this bad decision. You don't crap where you eat. It never ever works!

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Your story strikes a nerve with me. My ex left for her boss too. What's up with that crap. Why can't people be happy with what they have? Every relationship takes work. My story

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t302201/

 

They will eventually be very sorry for this bad decision. You don't crap where you eat. It never ever works!

 

I know your story stunned, pretty brutal from them and immature too,

you've got my support stunned, hope time heals us...

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