PinkPunkCosmo Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I know how hard a heartbreak can be and at times it is a roller coaster of emotions, i just wanted to share some encouraging words for you guys and i hope it helps as i am also dealing with a difficult heart ache at the moment. I was in a relationship for 6 years and broke up Last month in November. It is so difficult to deal with it as it feels like a lifetime that i was with my ex. At one point it was so comfortable between us and it really did felt like never ending. Point is no matter how great you are in a relationship, what is bound to happen will happen and i know that sounds rough but its true. To my knowledge, there was no cheating through the 6 years, he moved to a different state, it got complicated and distance really can be a tough on a relationship and we decided to end it. Point is, I have friends that have been with their first love for years since middle school- high school and broken up gone their separate ways even married other people and eventually found each other again divorced and ended up together. It happens, life is unexpected. So it really is true that what is yours will be yours no matter what the circumstances will be. It just takes time i know we want results now right now but it really is up to time to decide how everything will fall into its place. If it is for you, believe it that it will be for YOU and only YOU. If that person you are crying for, hurting for and missing more than anything decides to not want to be back into your life then don't force it. They dont want to be part of your life then that is too bad for them. There are soooo many people on this earth and one is out there for every single one of us. It may take a while to find the one, but in the process it will be experiences preparing us, and building us stronger and stronger to be ready for the one that deserves us. So do not force it, if a person wants to be out of your life then let them be out of your life because regardless they are the ones missing out not you. Remember that life is unexpected the day that person that did not want to be part of your life (which will happen eventually you will find each other) and fought their way out, decides to come back it will be too late because happiness may have already found you with someone BETTER, WORTH loving, WORTH caring for and WORTH everything for and most importantly someone who will give the same in return. So stay strong, stay positive and keep your head up it WILL get better. Sorry for the long essay haha i just know what it feels like and its hard.
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