mridul_chajilee Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Like everyday,today i was going to my work.Before reaching my hospital,i saw that my Ex is just crossing road.I was in an Auto,i was trying to see her,i know she saw me but pretended not seeing me.I asked the driver to stop it and i ran to her and shouted her plz stop.But she did not stop but i again shouted then she stoppem and looked at me with angry eyes and nose.I asked her 'hey,how are you?' then she replied 'its not your matter,whether im good or bad' , 'Stay away from me or i will suiside here in Highway traffic'. I saw her after 2years and thought that she will behave me well.But same as before.
yzyzyz325 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 looks like she hates u... what did u do to her? u dumped her?
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 No she dumped me 2year back of our 11years relationship.And i had an expectation that 1day she will come to me.I was in NC in this 2year.But i'm still confuse about human nature and angry.Is it not sufficient 2years to forget those breakup days?Should not we forget and forgive injuries?Why she is still angry with me?Even i think enemy would forgive me if i had any mistake before.
immitable Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 that is a weird situation really. how was she during the relationship with you?
mike588 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 No she dumped me 2year back of our 11years relationship.And i had an expectation that 1day she will come to me.I was in NC in this 2year.But i'm still confuse about human nature and angry.Is it not sufficient 2years to forget those breakup days?Should not we forget and forgive injuries?Why she is still angry with me?Even i think enemy would forgive me if i had any mistake before. Wow 2 years later and she still feels that way! Why did she dump you? be honest,ha. That's along time for YOU to be still wondering why she still feels this way,it doesn't or shouldn't matter anymore to you. Next time you see her just ignore her if she doesn't want to talk to you anymore just leave it at that and try to more on,quit trying to figure it out,,your only hurting yourself!
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 @Immitable,bro she was very innocent and pious in those relation.But we had always fight coz she always fear for our relation as im 4m a lower caste and i always abused her.She scared to meet me only the fear of her family,so i abused her.1day i badly abused her when i was drunk and told her and her friend(female) as becoz she brokeup with me that she destroyed her virginity with me only. And after that evex i apolize her by touching her leg but she did not forgive me so i tooka a 2year break to again apolize but still the same. @mike,bro i am trying.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 @fucpcg,bro im not getting you.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 3, 2011 Author Posted December 3, 2011 If opposite of love is not hate and its indifference.Then my Ex gf showed hate to me then a question.does she love me?
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 Plz some input.Im confuse.
Sugarkane Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 Imagine if someone dud the sane thing to you. Could you really blame her?
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 But i did not want her relation again,as im not the perfect person for her.i just said 'hw r u?' and she abused.
broken-and-lost Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 (edited) You just need to let it go the fact you stopped car ran after her probably reminds her of abuse, look everyone makes mistakes the way you acted was wrong in your treatment of her weather you meant it or not, she probably has deep scars relating to your relationship that will never heal on her side you have to respect that if you said sorry in the past then that's all you can do and learn from your mistakes You haven't let it go in your head otherwise after two years you would have just let her ignore you and moved on respect the fact she does not want to forgive you that's her right some day she will have to to trust others but you damaged that in someway. Forgive yourself learn and try never to repeat what you did but leave her to get on with her life and try to get on with yours what's happened happened and you can't change it now. Her reaction does not mean she still loves you, my ex girlfriend won't talk to me i'm not a bad guy or evil person i made some mistakes yes, just because she doesn't talk to you doesn't mean she still cares, sometimes you just have to let it go and fix YOU nothing you say or do now will fix her. She abused because she is still hurting over what happened and you remind her of that, it's that simple she probably thought who the hell are you to say hello to me after everything that happened, it hurts but some wounds never heal they just scar over and you don't want to be reminded of why you have that big ugly scare on your chest. good luck man but really leave her be and forgive yourself Edited December 5, 2011 by broken-and-lost
Author mridul_chajilee Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 Hmmm....she is a nerve cell which never heal.There is no reverseable way to nerve cell injury of brain like that way my Ex is.But knowing all the true fact,im just taking medicine of a false hope.Thanks bro.
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