zaphodb2002 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I'm on the rebound. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years yesterday. My ex, the girl I was with before this last one, whom I dated for 5 years, has stayed a good friend despite the fairly rough end of our relationship, when she cheated on me with my best friend at the time. She's now married to him, and they have a 1 year old son. We've been able to stay friends because we were each attached elsewhere, and we still got along, and our respective SO's didn't mind, and trusted us. Well, now I'm single, and she may be leaving her husband. Not because of me or anything, they've been having problems. I'm still very attracted to her, and I'm fairly sure she's still attracted to me, she's made it decently clear. Things could get heavy. She's still married. I don't want to settle down, and she's not looking for a fling. I'm uncomfortable with her having a kid. She cheated on me, for christ's sake. I don't want to lead her on, but if she comes on to me, I don't think I can help myself. Plus, I keep telling myself I used to want to spend the rest of my life with her, but I don't think that's true anymore, at least not with someone else's kid, someone I'm not fond of, and it wouldn't be fair to her to pretend I did. I know that I need to be good, but it's tough. It's unfortunate things don't work out. I suppose I'm just venting. Anyone wanna commiserate with me? Had a similar issue or any advice?
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