TheLameDuck Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Ok first let me introduce myself, my name is Lewis, I am 24, my friends call me Louey. I am having an issue and I didn't know where to go for help because I can't address my girlfriend or my friends. So I searched the web and happened upon this forum. The back story, I've been dating this girl for 3 months now and she wants to close the deal. But the problem is I can't get excited or aroused around her. Now I am a virgin and never had a sexual encounter with a female, but whenever she touches me erotically and we start getting hot and heavy, nothing happens and I remain, how do I say, flaccid. I am really worried about what this means. Now I have been having fantasies for a long time now ever since I was 16. I never would act on these fantasies because I don't want to be looked down upon or picked on by my friends. I have always wondered what it would be like to dress up in woman's clothes. Maybe this sounds crazy and I sound like a freak but I have always wanted to wear woman's underwear, and have often found my eyes wandering when a larger male walks into my office space. What does all this mean? Am I just some kind of freak? I love my girlfriend but I don't know how to get to the next stage to full fill her in the way that she needs. Can anyone please help me, I don't know where else to look for help
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