naomii Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I spent over about a year and a half on a guy that just uses me. He wasnt even my boyfriend but i stuck around because hed pretend it was going somewhere, or beg to have me back if i stopped contact with him. To make it worse, we got into a fight after drinking. I started the fight, but he punched me and broke my nose. We didnt talk for a while and i was set in my ways of moving on, but i stupidly let him back in. He didnt even apologize or have any remorse. Im going to tell him to lose my number, and try to stick with moving on again. Hes on dating sites and doesnt know that i know about it. I just dont understand after all hes put me through (and trust me theres a lot more) why i feel so sad about it. I feel like i wasnt good enough for him. Im only 20 years old but this is the first time ive really been involved with a guy and its been going on so long that my self esteem is at rock bottom...I feel so used and betrayed..
stillafool Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I hope you don't live with him. Listen to me hon, LEAVE HIM ALONE NOW! It is his intention to break your spirit and lower your self esteem so you will feel that he is the only man who will want you. He is trying to steal your youth and make you an old hag before your time. DON'T LET HIM DO IT! If you think the broken nose was painful just wait, next time (and oh yes there will be plenty of next times) he will break your ribs and more. He will continue to beat on you until he ruins your looks. Please believe me as this is so true. Leave him alone now! How old is he?
Author naomii Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 Thanks for replying. I do not live with him, i couldnt even get him to commit to me. Hes 23. Hes so worthless and i know this deep down, i just wish i could change my feelings for him and move on for good
stillafool Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I know it is hard because you love him. Get away from him before you become pregnant with his baby and then you may never get away from him. It is very common for your first love to be one of the hardest to get over but in 10 years you will be so happy you let him go. If you don't bite the bullet and let him go now I can promise you you will regret it. You should be having fun at your age and hopefully going to school or working to start your life. He is a loser and will always be one. If you stay with him your future will not be bright. Please listen to me.
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