chados Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 so this is a hard question, and is there really any answers to it?. lets find out. so i met this girl, she was really into me, never got that much compliments in my life, she actually said that she never thought someone like me would go out with her, she couldn't look into my eyes, because she got shy. i talked to her in the phone and she said she wants to have a date with me. and then she said something about how she sometimes hurt the other person, and that i will go out with her on my own risk. and after she said that she also said, i shouldnt say that, i cant just hide myself all the time. she's also slow to answer texts, and i mean really slow. every time in the phone, she's giving positive response. "im glad that youre calling and so on" she also using my name alot when she talks to me, and from experience people do that when they like you. my ex girlfriend did that when we started dating. she told my sister that she has a sweet brother and my best friend that im one one the best looking guys she's ever seen. she told me she've seen me before and that she thought i would just sleep with her and dump her. and i can tell she's still insecure about my intentions. dont take this as bragging please. im just typing what she said to me. i dont see myself that way. so what is this? is she afraid that im not serious?, insecure about herself? or playing hard to get maybe? should i see this as a red flag? she isn't shy, she's never cheated on anyone. so what is this?
Ariadne Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Hi, Sounds like she'll be interested. Have you asked her to meet in person somewhere?
Author chados Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 Hi, Sounds like she'll be interested. Have you asked her to meet in person somewhere? yes im meeting her on saturday. its just that it looks like she's interested above everything else. and i dont think she trust me yet, so she wont contact me before i contact her. and thats okey, i got the upper hand?. well then she says, im used to end up hurting other people, if that isn't mixed signals then what? if i felt that strong about a girl i've just met, i would have great expectations. what do you think she meant by saying, im used to end up hurting other people, and then say i shouldn't say that, forget i said that,"i cant just hide in a box all the time"?
Ariadne Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Awesome! And what she says may mean that she had a previous bf that was in love and got hurt, or she broke up with him. You can ask her on Sat what she means. Good luck with the girl.
Author chados Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 Awesome! And what she says may mean that she had a previous bf that was in love and got hurt, or she broke up with him. You can ask her on Sat what she means. Good luck with the girl. yeah i know, well sometimes you just need someone else telling you. but nobody can. thanks for taking your time answering:)
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