nyjfan983 Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Just looking for some advice here, do you think trust can be earned back? I broke up for maybe because of insecurities on my part but she had horrible past history of cheating and started.showing some signs. I really love her and i know she loves me when looknger eyes. She has bad daddy issues and never had a father and we were fine for.first couple years but i was constantly doubted.and tried to fix it buI t never happened. Basically I love her but dont want to keep tryin ti fix things. I really still believe she can change but most people have.told me people cant change. Maybe I just.need an outside opinion.th thanks for any help.
ditzchic Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 People can change, sure. They have to really want to and it's a lot of work. It will never happen overnight. Your insecurities and lack of trust in her won't change overnight either. You both have to want to change those things and it will take time. Lots of time. I guess what you have to ask yourself is: Is she worth the time and effort on your part. Considering she may or may not do her part. Once trust is broken it's usually best to move on because it is EXTREMELY difficult to rebuild.
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