ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Yes, I think I know what you mean. A good number of East Coast ladies know how to knock boots. Though the girls in Philly always made me feel like they had one hand on my cock and the other on my wallet. I seriously don't understand how OP's GF can enjoy looking at tits and pussy, without wanting to try it. Bisexual people are just confusing... it just seems... indecisive. Ahhh well I'm a NY girl and I like a guy with a job, but money is not the end all be all. A nice penis is far more important to me:D Penthouse magazines are pretty hot. I'm not a lesbian by any means, but some of those girls look good. I like looking at it actually. But I prefer the boy girl shots over just a naked chick or a couple naked chicks. A guy and a hot chick doing it is pretty damn arousing. Maybe OP's girlfriend feels the same way. Which means she likes seeing an attractive man and woman f*cking. Is she gay or bi-sexual? Probably not. I'm not.
Ginger Beer Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 That's like saying that lots of people masturbate to child porn without being pedophiles. Good luck with that argument in court. This really made me laugh.
whichwayisup Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I am worried my girlfriend is a lesbian. In the past she has commented on how attractive women on television are - in particular their breasts. I shrugged this off, but then I found something in her drawer. I found her little electric friend and some adult magazines. But, these were not of men, these are Penthouses! Is she playing with herself while looking at women? Is she a lesbian? No she isn't. This is fantasy and self pleasing. That's IT. Hello, you fantasize about other women when you jerk off, doesn't mean you're gonna go bang them, right? Chill out and let her enjoy her own fantasies.. Why not put on some lesbian porn and have some fun in bed with her. It'll be hot!
ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 No she isn't. This is fantasy and self pleasing. That's IT. Hello, you fantasize about other women when you jerk off, doesn't mean you're gonna go bang them, right? Chill out and let her enjoy her own fantasies.. Why not put on some lesbian porn and have some fun in bed with her. It'll be hot! OR she could be looking at the guy girl shots in Penthouse. HELLO!!! That sh*t is sexy as hell. I've looked at those types of shots before and I'm straight as an arrow.
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Ahhh well I'm a NY girl and I like a guy with a job, but money is not the end all be all. A nice penis is far more important to me:D Penthouse magazines are pretty hot. I'm not a lesbian by any means, but some of those girls look good. I like looking at it actually. But I prefer the boy girl shots over just a naked chick or a couple naked chicks. A guy and a hot chick doing it is pretty damn arousing. Maybe OP's girlfriend feels the same way. Which means she likes seeing an attractive man and woman f*cking. Is she gay or bi-sexual? Probably not. I'm not. .... I actually forgot Penthouse has guys in it too. Worried... I think you should be Worried no more. Case closed.
ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 .... I actually forgot Penthouse has guys in it too. Worried... I think you should be Worried no more. Case closed. Hahahahaha hell yeah there's guys. She could easily be looking at those shots. Hell, I would! They are hot. Just like with guy girl porn. It's hot to see a couple going at it. Doesn't mean I'm gay or bi because I like seeing a girl getting plowed. Come on. Case closed is right.
ChessPieceFace Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) So, by your logic, a guy could have a fetish about sucking cock, and still be straight? Interesting. Yes actually. Or for a more accurate analogy in this case, LOOKING at men or parts of men. Big-dick porn is a pretty popular niche. You really think every guy that looks at big-dick porn is gay? Again, you want everything to be black & white cause that's easier. And it also helps you stroke your pathetic male ego to call other people gay for the slightest bit of exploration. "The OP's GF looks at playboys and therefore she is a lesbian" - pathetic. I'd be happy if my GF had playboys. At least I would know she wasn't like all the crusty prudes with sticks up their rectums on this forum. As for the porn = you would do that IRL argument - even more pathetic. Hey, how many millions of people watch slasher films. They are all murderers apparently. Edited December 2, 2011 by ChessPieceFace
Feelin Frisky Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 So, by your logic, a guy could have a fetish about sucking cock, and still be straight? Interesting. Actually, this is often very true. It's called penis fascination or fixation, and it involves guys entertaining fantasies in which they think penis. The measure of real sexuality however is if they have feelings for the man attached to the cock, find men appealing sexually and actually go through with having gay sex. Porn producers know this and its the reason cocks and cum shots are always shown but the dude's face often isn't. There's a range of sexuality in the male gender that is not much talked about but reflected in porn (because men buy and no one wants to cut down their own market). And to whom it may concern, I don't chug cock in my mind.
ChessPieceFace Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) Actually, this is often very true. It's called penis fascination or fixation, and it involves guys entertaining fantasies in which they think penis. The measure of real sexuality however is if they have feelings for the man attached to the cock, find men appealing sexually and actually go through with having gay sex. Porn producers know this and its the reason cocks and cum shots are always shown but the dude's face often isn't. Also, since male sexuality often begins largely with solo masturbation & ejaculation, many men then associate the visuals of erect genitals & ejaculation with their own sexual pleasure, because of this "sexual imprinting." Of course the successful porn producers know it and exploit it. "158 cum shots" etc. Yet the average person hasn't figured any of this out and still lunges to call someone gay if they ever admitted it. I've never considered the female side of it, but I imagine masturbating while looking down at boobs and rubbing their pussy, they would have something similar, though less pronounced than men, if I understand the gender differences in sexual imprinting. I'd even hypothesize that women who were into female visuals might be more male-like in their sexual behavior & imprinting, and as a result might be a lot better at & more interested in sex. Just a theory. And to whom it may concern, I don't chug cock in my mind. It's sad that you felt the need to even state this. It's like making apologies because of others' ignorance. Edited December 2, 2011 by ChessPieceFace
ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Actually, this is often very true. It's called penis fascination or fixation, and it involves guys entertaining fantasies in which they think penis. The measure of real sexuality however is if they have feelings for the man attached to the cock, find men appealing sexually and actually go through with having gay sex. Porn producers know this and its the reason cocks and cum shots are always shown but the dude's face often isn't. There's a range of sexuality in the male gender that is not much talked about but reflected in porn (because men buy and no one wants to cut down their own market). And to whom it may concern, I don't chug cock in my mind. Frisky I love you hahahahaha I've had too many glasses of chardonnay, but I love you. You don't chug cock? Hahahahahaha I do. Forgive me, I'm drunk
Author Worried80 Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 .... I actually forgot Penthouse has guys in it too. Worried... I think you should be Worried no more. Case closed. There are playboys in the collection as well.
ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 There are playboys in the collection as well. So the girl likes looking at airbrushed pussies. So what? She probably wishes her's looked like that. And???
Feelsgoodman Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) Yes actually. Or for a more accurate analogy in this case, LOOKING at men or parts of men. Big-dick porn is a pretty popular niche. You really think every guy that looks at big-dick porn is gay? I'm sorry, but if you get aroused looking at dicks (big or otherwise), you are most definitely gay. Or at minimum bisexual. Your definition of "straight" is stretchered so wide (no pun intended) that it falls squarely outside of the normal definition of that term. No amount of personal attacks on my "pathetic male ego" is going to change the fact that you have obvious gay tendencies. People like you really amuse me. Instead of admitting that they are gay or bisexual, they try to change the definition of straight to encompass their gay-ish inclinations. Why can't you simply come out of the closet? It's 2011...no one's going to beat you up for being gay/bisexual. Edited December 2, 2011 by Feelsgoodman
Feelsgoodman Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Actually, this is often very true. It's called penis fascination or fixation, and it involves guys entertaining fantasies in which they think penis. The measure of real sexuality however is if they have feelings for the man attached to the cock, find men appealing sexually and actually go through with having gay sex. Porn producers know this and its the reason cocks and cum shots are always shown but the dude's face often isn't. There's a range of sexuality in the male gender that is not much talked about but reflected in porn (because men buy and no one wants to cut down their own market). And to whom it may concern, I don't chug cock in my mind. There's something called latent homosexuality. That's the definition I would ascribe to men who are aroused by male genitalia but never follow through with having gay sex. And while I'm not an expert on porn production, I would imagine that over-sized male genitalia features prominently in pornography not because most male viewers find it arousing but because it makes the sex scenes look more extreme/intense. Who wants to watch a sex scene with a male actor who has a 3" dick and can't properly stimulate his female counterpart? That's just my theory though...I shall defer to the "experts". I still find it interesting that people are so desperate to avoid being painted with the gay brush...even just a little bit. They will rather twist and stretch the definition of "straight" than admit to being bisexual.
ChessPieceFace Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) I've never been attracted to a man in any way. Cum shot and big dick porn are some of the biggest sellers, and I'm confident in saying that most of the buyers are straight. You fail in every way possible. If you want to meet me IRL, we'll see who gets beat up, who lives and who dies. P.S.: another troll blocked And for the uninitiated and the bystanders I will simply say this -- many people in the world simply don't deserve oxygen, and most others need serious mental reprogramming. I'm both smarter and wiser than most people, which gives me the authority to make conclusions on these issues, which posters like the above will never comprehend. I'll share bits and pieces with you: - The above poster is truly nothing more than an animal who has learned to type, and should be dealt with accordingly - Any deviation from animal masculinity will always be punished by said animals. This could be anything, be it porn fetishes, willingness to use anal sex toys, or more everyday things like not participating in "manly" interests like football or "hardcore" music - Gays will always be ridiculed because of the above. Straight men like me who refuse to live by outside conventions and standards will also be ridiculed because of the above - Most humans will never understand their own motivations - True masculinity is liking what you like and not giving a !@^# what the animals think - True enlightenment will leave you feeling very much alone since then you, like me, will realize you're living inside a !@^%ing zoo Edited December 2, 2011 by ChessPieceFace
Eeyore79 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I find a lot of women pretty, and sometimes have fantasies which I would never act out - because in reality I'm not interested in women, it's just an occasional kinky fantasy thing. I sometimes fantasize about threesomes too, but in reality I believe in monogamy and wouldn't want to have a threesome. Fantasy is different from reality; I very much doubt if your gf is secretly gay.
Forever Learning Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) Also, since male sexuality often begins largely with solo masturbation & ejaculation, many men then associate the visuals of erect genitals & ejaculation with their own sexual pleasure, because of this "sexual imprinting." Of course the successful porn producers know it and exploit it. "158 cum shots" etc. Yet the average person hasn't figured any of this out and still lunges to call someone gay if they ever admitted it. I've never considered the female side of it, but I imagine masturbating while looking down at boobs and rubbing their pussy, they would have something similar, though less pronounced than men, if I understand the gender differences in sexual imprinting. I'd even hypothesize that women who were into female visuals might be more male-like in their sexual behavior & imprinting, and as a result might be a lot better at & more interested in sex. Just a theory. I agree with you on all counts. Pretty much anybody naked gets me hot, so long as they are fairly appealing. I'm not bi-sexual nor gay. Just easily hotified. Yes I just invented that word. It's sad that you felt the need to even state this. It's like making apologies because of others' ignorance. Oh don't mind him, he was just stating that caveat for the sake of his girlfriend because sometimes she's a meathead. OK, ALOT of times. :D:D Edited December 2, 2011 by Forever Learning
Feelsgoodman Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I agree with you on all counts. Pretty much anybody naked gets me hot, so long as they are fairly appealing. I'm not bi-sexual nor gay. Just easily hotified. Yes I just invented that word. Keep telling that to yourself
Feelsgoodman Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 And for the record, I have nothing against gays or bisexuals. I just find it amusing when gay people try to pass themselves off as straight. It's not 1951, people. You don't have to do that anymore...
azsinglegal Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) Also they appreciate their man more than straight women Yes, we do. I'm bisexual and I masturbate to women more then men because I'm normally in relationships with men and it's more of the "intrigue" for something I don't currently have that turns me on. Edited December 2, 2011 by azsinglegal
azsinglegal Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 What do you think about Shemales? Not really my thing. And they're into men, not women.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 There's something called latent homosexuality. That's the definition I would ascribe to men who are aroused by male genitalia but never follow through with having gay sex. And while I'm not an expert on porn production, I would imagine that over-sized male genitalia features prominently in pornography not because most male viewers find it arousing but because it makes the sex scenes look more extreme/intense. Who wants to watch a sex scene with a male actor who has a 3" dick and can't properly stimulate his female counterpart? That's just my theory though...I shall defer to the "experts". I still find it interesting that people are so desperate to avoid being painted with the gay brush...even just a little bit. They will rather twist and stretch the definition of "straight" than admit to being bisexual. "Latent" homosexuality is what they used to say about men who were not effeminate. I think it's a bit of a dated term now because sexuality is not the taboo subject it once was to talk about at all and it's "out" that lots of people are gay who don't look the archetypal flamboyant part. It also describes persons who live in denial but given the first advance drop trow and bend fro a friend and you know what all else. It's almost synonymous with bi-sexuality since one has to appear hetero-sexual in order for the episodes of homosexuality to seem "latent".
Feelin Frisky Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Frisky I love you hahahahaha I've had too many glasses of chardonnay, but I love you. You don't chug cock? Hahahahahaha I do. Forgive me, I'm drunk You're allowed.
Forever Learning Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I agree with you on all counts. Pretty much anybody naked gets me hot, so long as they are fairly appealing. I'm not bi-sexual nor gay. Just easily hotified. Yes I just invented that word. Keep telling that to yourself You missed my point. I didn't say I got hot FOR THEM. I said 'gets me hot'. In general. Turns me on, gets me thinking about sex, when I might not have been thinking about it before. Keep telling yourself you know everything
dasein Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Gay, hetero, bi, doesn't matter. If something like this comes up early on it needs to be talked about. Have had way too many friends waste years in a faux marriage, of both genders, and then have their spouse up and run off with the same sex after wasted time and even children in a marriage after it becomes sexless over time. Get sexual preference out on the table early and openly so that kind of tragedy doesn't happen.
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