Worried80 Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I am worried my girlfriend is a lesbian. In the past she has commented on how attractive women on television are - in particular their breasts. I shrugged this off, but then I found something in her drawer. I found her little electric friend and some adult magazines. But, these were not of men, these are Penthouses! Is she playing with herself while looking at women? Is she a lesbian?
azsinglegal Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 How about you ask her instead of going thru her things? 1
Feelin Frisky Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 If she were a lesbian, she wouldn't be with you. She's not even bi-sexual until she acts out sex with another woman. So for now she appears to be a woman who notices other women, makes comments about breasts, has a vibrator and a copy of Penthouse in her drawer.
phillyfan Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Dude she aint gay u r just lucky 2 be wit such a hot girl who likes buyin Penthouse. Thts kinda the dream dont complayn, enjoy :laugh:
dasein Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 If a woman came on here and said her man had some gay porn in his drawer next to a tube of lube or lotion, it would be pretty obvious that he was in fact gay, she would be told that by pretty much everyone here,or at the the very least closeted and confused. Same for a woman who masturbates to penthouse. In all likelihood, if the magazine is hers and she uses it to masturbate to, then yes, she is gay or confused and closeted. Many many gay people try to maintain normal hetero behaviors, even having children. Then down the road, he or she has left the marriage or relationship for someone of the same sex. There is one other slight possibility, that she doesn't look at the pics, but reads the penthouse forum section, which a hetero woman might find stimulating. You are going to have to ask her directly to know for sure.
Author Worried80 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 If she were a lesbian, she wouldn't be with you. She's not even bi-sexual until she acts out sex with another woman. So for now she appears to be a woman who notices other women, makes comments about breasts, has a vibrator and a copy of Penthouse in her drawer. I am worried that she is gay, but wants a "normal" relationship, children, etc.... I'm sure there are many gay women married to men with families. I'll have to confront her. I don't want her (or me) to live a lie.
ShannonMI Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I am worried my girlfriend is a lesbian. In the past she has commented on how attractive women on television are - in particular their breasts. I shrugged this off, but then I found something in her drawer. I found her little electric friend and some adult magazines. But, these were not of men, these are Penthouses! Is she playing with herself while looking at women? Is she a lesbian? Maybe she's bisexual. Is that a problem for you? If it is, break up with her.
ChessPieceFace Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Breasts aren't women. People can have all kinds of fetishes, she could be straight but have a fetish about breasts. Or she may be bi. But I don't think it's likely that she's 100% lesbian. People want everything black & white when it's not.
DeusExMachina Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Sometimes I look at attractive women and think what it would be like to be licked by them.... What a coincidence! So do I! Sorry couldn't resist...
CarrieT Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Worried, LOTS of women masturbate to female images without being gay. I did for years and still do occasionally; it means nothing.
Andy_K Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I am worried my girlfriend is a lesbian. In the past she has commented on how attractive women on television are - in particular their breasts. I shrugged this off, but then I found something in her drawer. I found her little electric friend and some adult magazines. But, these were not of men, these are Penthouses! Is she playing with herself while looking at women? Is she a lesbian? High five! Most girls are bi to some degree or other, a lot just won't admit it because they don't want to be labelled. In my personal experience, I have found that openly bisexual girls make way better girlfriends because: - They're less insecure and uptight - You can both comment on hot girls. You don't need to be careful what you say. - They're more open with their sexuality and better in bed - They seem to be generally more laid back about life in general. Less drama in every way.
Feelsgoodman Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Worried, LOTS of women masturbate to female images without being gay. I did for years and still do occasionally; it means nothing. That's like saying that lots of people masturbate to child porn without being pedophiles. Good luck with that argument in court.
Feelsgoodman Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Breasts aren't women. People can have all kinds of fetishes, she could be straight but have a fetish about breasts. Or she may be bi. But I don't think it's likely that she's 100% lesbian. People want everything black & white when it's not. So, by your logic, a guy could have a fetish about sucking cock, and still be straight? Interesting.
ShannonMI Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 So, by your logic, a guy could have a fetish about sucking cock, and still be straight? Interesting. Would you shut up please. You love to argue with all the women on here, don't you? It's all too obvious.
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Would you shut up please. You love to argue with all the women on here, don't you? It's all too obvious. Why do so many posters here seem to hate you?
Feelsgoodman Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Would you shut up please. You love to argue with all the women on here, don't you? It's all too obvious. What's with the b*tchy attitude? Are you PMS-ing again? Isn't there a male strip club you could visit to take the edge off? And what's with following me around and replying to every post I make? I know why the trolls like you so much...they see a kindred spirit!
ShannonMI Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Why do so many posters here seem to hate you? "So many" meaning what like 2 or 3? And all of them are men. Big surprise.
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 "So many" meaning what like 2 or 3? And all of them are men. Big surprise. I was going to say I count about 10 or more... but after reading through some threads I realize the Hydra is back. Ugh.... that guy is a Dbag. I'm sorry you seem to be the target today. Don't worry he usually get's bored after a few days and goes away. This happens once every couple months.
ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 I was going to say I count about 10 or more... but after reading through some threads I realize the Hydra is back. Ugh.... that guy is a Dbag. I'm sorry you seem to be the target today. Don't worry he usually get's bored after a few days and goes away. This happens once every couple months. Yeah I was going to say... 10? Ummm more like 2 or 3. Most of the "10" are one troll. I honestly don't give a rat's ass what a few people think of me. I have a lot of friends on LS. Some of the men on here don't like me because I'm a sassy bitch who tells it like it is. Some dudes can't handle it I guess. Oh well:D
Author Worried80 Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 Worried, LOTS of women masturbate to female images without being gay. I did for years and still do occasionally; it means nothing. Do you consider yourself bi? Are you still attracted to men?
joystickd Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 High five! Most girls are bi to some degree or other, a lot just won't admit it because they don't want to be labelled. In my personal experience, I have found that openly bisexual girls make way better girlfriends because: - They're less insecure and uptight - You can both comment on hot girls. You don't need to be careful what you say. - They're more open with their sexuality and better in bed - They seem to be generally more laid back about life in general. Less drama in every way. Also they appreciate their man more than straight women
Author Worried80 Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 Also they appreciate their man more than straight women Why do you think so?
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Yeah I was going to say... 10? Ummm more like 2 or 3. Most of the "10" are one troll. I honestly don't give a rat's ass what a few people think of me. I have a lot of friends on LS. Some of the men on here don't like me because I'm a sassy bitch who tells it like it is. Some dudes can't handle it I guess. Oh well:D Hahaha... a self described Sassy Bitch? Love it! You are so East Coast. Do you think this guys GF is Bi or Gay? Should he just ask her straight out? I think I would.
ShannonMI Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Hahaha... a self described Sassy Bitch? Love it! You are so East Coast. Do you think this guys GF is Bi or Gay? Should he just ask her straight out? I think I would. Hahahahaha that's so funny you should say that. I dated a Cali boy who would always say that to me "you're so east coast." And he was so west coast, but we got on like a house on fire if you know what I mean. I think OP's girlfriend may be bi or maybe she just likes looking at tits and pussy. I don't know. Would she actually have SEX with a girl? Who knows. Some wouldn't.
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 Hahahahaha that's so funny you should say that. I dated a Cali boy who would always say that to me "you're so east coast." And he was so west coast, but we got on like a house on fire if you know what I mean. I think OP's girlfriend may be bi or maybe she just likes looking at tits and pussy. I don't know. Would she actually have SEX with a girl? Who knows. Some wouldn't. Yes, I think I know what you mean. A good number of East Coast ladies know how to knock boots. Though the girls in Philly always made me feel like they had one hand on my cock and the other on my wallet. I seriously don't understand how OP's GF can enjoy looking at tits and pussy, without wanting to try it. Bisexual people are just confusing... it just seems... indecisive.
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