Paper Roses Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I feel WONDERFUL! I was doing NC to hurt HIM but it was eating me alive. He wouldn't stop calling and stopping by and I blocked his number and he showed up so I decided it was time to put that baby to bed. Oh yeah!! I told him calmly, without anger, why I didn't want him in my life anymore. I threw alot of truth in his face. I feel like I finally got a little closure on this and I know him well enough to know the way I did it got to him. I was calm, so calm. I'm usually angry and screaming at him for one reason or another but this was different. I am finished and now he knows exactly what I think of him, I don't care if he's walking away thinking I'm some witch. What do I care what he thinks of me? It feels fantabulous. I'm not trying to tell anyone on this board to do the same. You have to be emotionally prepared to really, truly let go. I feel better than I have in years! I'm so proud of myself. Thanks to all of you who listened to me whine the past few weeks, your support really gave me some strength, reading other posts also helped me tremendously.
mike588 Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Your welcome and I'm glad you feel you got your closure and you feel GREAT!!
Author Paper Roses Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 Thanks Mike. You helped me a whole lot too. Crazy that a total stranger could help me so much but you told it to me straight, no b.s. You rock, man!
flitzanu Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 how does being excited about "getting to him" and purposefully ignoring him to be vindictive prove that you're over him? seems the opposite.
bittersweet memories Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Good Girl! You should be very proud of yourself for staying strong. Keep it up!
sardeen Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I see you are happy with yourself, but you are taking pleasure in hurting someone and it just reminds me of what my ex just did to me. The guy was calling you because he missed you and had some regrets and you are happy that you left him down. Its like the entire relationship you had with him was a lie or you did not care about him. Im all for feeling empowered after a break up, but there should be no joy over the fact that you hurt someone who still cares for you.
M2155 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 You're probably different from most people on here in that you say you don't care what your ex things while other people deep down want their ex to react favorably toward them. So as long as you meant what you said and hopefully he gets the point and leaves you alone, good for you!
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