ech Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 My bf and I were talking about the marriage issue. I asked him if he was ever going to get married again and he said "yes, someday, and when he does it is going to be in vegas." We are planning a trip to vegas in feb. You think I am reading to much into this, or is there wedding bells in the future? We have only been together for 4 months, so I think its way to soon. But he says we are going to have a bright and happy future together and when the time is right he will marry again. SOOOOO I am wondering if that "time" for him is coming up. Any thoughts? Thanks!!
rightfield Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I'd just have a discussion about it and get it all out there on the table. I don't like to have things like that "sprung" on me. Getting married, especially a subsequent time, is something that should be thoroughly discussed and entered into methodically. Don't sit around and wonder about this for the next couple of months. Have the talk.
Author ech Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 How would I even bring up a talk like that without sounding to pushy? I dont want him to think I am trying to push him into marriage after only 4 months:) I do think we are meant for eachother and will be married someday, but I when I do bring up marriage, he says, "yea when the time is right" or "our relationship is moving in the right direction"
rightfield Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 How would I even bring up a talk like that without sounding to pushy? I dont want him to think I am trying to push him into marriage after only 4 months:) I do think we are meant for eachother and will be married someday, but I when I do bring up marriage, he says, "yea when the time is right" or "our relationship is moving in the right direction" When talking about the Vegas trip, you could somehow jokingly mention that some people get crazy/drunk and make rash decisions about getting married in Vegas, and make a point that you would never let that happen.
Onlyjonley Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Whoooaaaaa there. Calm down. I'm sure marriage will be the last thing on his mind when you go to Vegas in February. He'll be thinking about winning $$$ and all the half-naked chicks walking around.
Author ech Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 Sun Man- **** you. Rightfield- I agree, I will mention something to that effect. I never said I was ready after 4 months. Thats to soon. So we'll see:) Thanks!
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