serendipity3 Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Okay, back story : My ex and I broke up 4 years ago, we were teenagers. It happens. I really hurt him so I decided to give him his space. We've both dated other people. About 2 weeks ago I saw him at my university and we were talking, I invited him out. The next night he said he wouldn't be able to make it because he was going to study. 3 days went by and then he finally texted me asking how the night that I invited him out on went. We spoke a bit through text. Since then, we've texted a bit everyday. Last Friday, he asked me for a ....picture. I never sent it because, it's just not what I do. We texted for 2 days after that. Monday, I texted him first, but he seemed really dry so I left it. He didn't text me yesterday (Tuesday) and so far today, he hasn't texted. I texted him a while ago and said I would be going to the place I originally invited him out too and he said he was really busy with it being the end of the semester with studying and what not and he would try to stop by. we spoke for a little and he said he needed to relieve stress in which I told him going to the place I'm going to would be a great way to do that. Why is he doing this and what does it all mean ?!?!? Oh btw, he sometimes sends flirty texts and one day we were talking about fun events that happened when we were going out.
cerridwen Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Do you want to get back together with this person?
Author serendipity3 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 I would like to, yes. I never got over him. I've gone as far as to try and throw away everything he gave me, but nothing has worked. So seeing him again was a great surprise! And it's funny cause it's his last 2 weeks at the school so I kind of feel like it was meant to happen
cerridwen Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 (edited) I would like to, yes. I never got over him. I've gone as far as to try and throw away everything he gave me, but nothing has worked. So seeing him again was a great surprise! And it's funny cause it's his last 2 weeks at the school so I kind of feel like it was meant to happen Once bitten, twice shy. He's understandably cautious. If he doesn't show up to "de-stress" take it as a sign he's not interested in reconciliation. The trip down memory lane could be fueled by nothing more than nostalgia. The flirty texts may just be his version of friendly. It's impossible to say. If you two hang out, push the flirtation a little. See if he responds. Don't expect him to chase, given how things ended between you, so be prepared to put in a bit of work at this point. Good luck. Edited December 1, 2011 by cerridwen
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