kstinadenee Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Hi everyone, my story can be condensed to this: This time last year, my roommate introduced me (via Skype) to her cousin in MA. We hit it off and began talking all of the time. In December of last year, I went up there and it was love at first sight. I spent a few weeks there and from that moment on we were long distance. ( I live in FL.) We visited once a month and I spent my summer up there. Well, I last saw him about 3 weeks ago for a family wedding. It was great, but when I dropped him off at the airport, we were both crying. We knew we had to make this long distance be done with. So the planning began, and we began to get very excited for my move. Two weeks ago, I asked for a day of space to think things through, and when I called him that night- he totally changed his mind. He said he didn't want to be with me and that I needed to move on. I was given NC for a week and a half from him. He didnt respond to anything. Finally, I sent an email and we finally talked on the phone. He said he still felt the same way, and that I needed to respect him and give him space. Since then, I boxed everything up and sent him all traces of him in my room. Only thing is, I am going to MA in two weeks to go visit. He says he might be ready to see me but couldn't give me any answers. I am very close with all of his friends up there so we are bound to see each other. He said he would let me know before I leave if we can meet up. Everyday is killing me. I'm not sure what to do or where to go. I know I need to give him his space, but when we talked on the phone for the last time, he was still calling me "honey" and before we hung up we said "I love you". What am I to do?
BoredAgain Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Moving across the country for somebody (or having somebody move for you) is a huge commitment. Obviously there's no way for me or anybody else here to know why he's having second thoughts, but perhaps he's having doubts about making such a huge commitment with only one year under your belts. So, I have to ask you, don't you have your doubts about it? I understand that you love him, but aren't you at least a bit concerned that you guys might not get along so well when you start spending every day together?
Author kstinadenee Posted December 1, 2011 Author Posted December 1, 2011 Yes, it is so scary moving across the country for someone. But I am 22 years old so I feel like this is a time in my life where I can at least try to do something like that. I know it might be silly, but everything seemed like it was falling into place. I am not sure what to do from this point on
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