ShannonMI Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 All I'm saying is that a weekend getaway to a nice secluded Bed & Breakfast Inn and a Hot Carl goes a long long way in bonding two people. Oh definitely and then an engagement is sure to follow:lmao:
FrustrationSetsIn Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Oh definitely and then an engagement is sure to follow:lmao: No, I'm way too old fashioned. An engagement is only happening once enough trust is built up to make a Portuguese Breakfast together.
Ruby Slippers Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I consistently dated men close to my age until my mid-30s. When I was in my 20s, guys 30 and older hitting on me usually seemed a little creepy to me. Most of them came at me with the "let me be your sugar daddy and take care of you" vibe. I've dated a few older guys in the past couple of years, and now I see the appeal. They do tend to treat you like the "young hottie", and they're more mature and stable, in general. You get a lot more of the old-school gentlemanly treatment, which I love. But I've also dated some younger guys, and I see their appeal, too -- constantly aroused and all over you, full of piss and vinegar, eager to please and wow, naively optimistic and convinced you're the greatest thing that will ever happen to them. Old, young, or in-between, men are just sexy.
ShannonMI Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I consistently dated men close to my age until my mid-30s. When I was in my 20s, guys 30 and older hitting on me usually seemed a little creepy to me. Most of them came at me with the "let me be your sugar daddy and take care of you" vibe. I've dated a few older guys in the past couple of years, and now I see the appeal. They do tend to treat you like the "young hottie", and they're more mature and stable, in general. You get a lot more of the old-school gentlemanly treatment, which I love. But I've also dated some younger guys, and I see their appeal, too -- constantly aroused and all over you, full of piss and vinegar, eager to please and wow, naively optimistic and convinced you're the greatest thing that will ever happen to them. Old, young, or in-between, men are just sexy. Yessssss... men are crazy sexy. I have an insatiable appetite for them. I do love young guys, but the one I met last night was everything I hate about 20 somethings. He wasn't eager to please unless telling me how hot I was in considered pleasing me. Lame ass.
ShannonMI Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 No, I'm way too old fashioned. An engagement is only happening once enough trust is built up to make a Portuguese Breakfast together. Oh Lordy too gross!!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Old, young, or in-between, men are just sexy. You know what gets to me on this board. That women will talk about how great men are young or old. And yet the men talk about how worthless women are when they are older while they talk about how much better and great they are. I wish more men saw women like you see men Ruby but the responses here for women are such downers.
FrustrationSetsIn Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 Now to get the thread back on track. I tend to stay away from women under 25. Women younger than that are naive enough to have their whole life planned out before them. Don't get me wrong, it is great to have goals in life, but they haven't experienced the "life happens while you're making plans" bit yet enough to put some reality into them to make them realize that not everything goes to their plans.
dasein Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 You know what gets to me on this board. That women will talk about how great men are young or old. And yet the men talk about how worthless women are when they are older while they talk about how much better and great they are. I wish more men saw women like you see men Ruby but the responses here for women are such downers. I guess my statement in this very thread (and others) that I prefer women aged 30+ doesnt' count? Why not?
phineas Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I consistently dated men close to my age until my mid-30s. When I was in my 20s, guys 30 and older hitting on me usually seemed a little creepy to me. Most of them came at me with the "let me be your sugar daddy and take care of you" vibe. I've dated a few older guys in the past couple of years, and now I see the appeal. They do tend to treat you like the "young hottie", and they're more mature and stable, in general. You get a lot more of the old-school gentlemanly treatment, which I love. But I've also dated some younger guys, and I see their appeal, too -- constantly aroused and all over you, full of piss and vinegar, eager to please and wow, naively optimistic and convinced you're the greatest thing that will ever happen to them. Old, young, or in-between, men are just sexy. Oh no, I am not a sugar-daddy & I've never bought a woman a drink I met in a bar. Yet they still asked for my number when I was leaving.
Ruby Slippers Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I do love young guys, but the one I met last night was everything I hate about 20 somethings. He wasn't eager to please unless telling me how hot I was in considered pleasing me. Lame ass. That sucks. Like a little puppy who hasn't been house-broken yet. You know what gets to me on this board. That women will talk about how great men are young or old. And yet the men talk about how worthless women are when they are older while they talk about how much better and great they are. I wish more men saw women like you see men Ruby but the responses here for women are such downers. Men tend to respond to rejection with anger more than women do. Insulting older women is a warped way of getting back at the younger women who wouldn't have anything to do with them. Very titty baby behavior, if you think about it. Both men and women are pretty clueless in their 20s. Most people, men and women, start to grow up a little in their 30s. Oh no, I am not a sugar-daddy & I've never bought a woman a drink I met in a bar. Yet they still asked for my number when I was leaving. Oh, I'm sure you're very sexy. I'm not saying couples of different ages are a bad thing. I'm just saying that most of the older guys who approached me when I was in my 20s came at me with a bit of that sugar daddy vibe -- and that is just not an attractive energy to me. I want real love from a man, not money. (If the real love comes with money, great, but that's never going to be main draw.)
ShannonMI Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 That sucks. Like a little puppy who hasn't been house-broken yet. Men tend to respond to rejection with anger more than women do. Insulting older women is a warped way of getting back at the younger women who wouldn't have anything to do with them. Very titty baby behavior, if you think about it. Both men and women are pretty clueless in their 20s. Most people, men and women, start to grow up a little in their 30s. Oh, I'm sure you're very sexy. I'm not saying couples of different ages are a bad thing. I'm just saying that most of the older guys who approached me when I was in my 20s came at me with a bit of that sugar daddy vibe -- and that is just not an attractive energy to me. I want real love from a man, not money. (If the real love comes with money, great, but that's never going to be main draw.) Hahahahaha you are a hoot, girl. We'd get along so well:lmao:
Elysian Powder Posted December 3, 2011 Posted December 3, 2011 I guess my statement in this very thread (and others) that I prefer women aged 30+ doesnt' count? Why not? Because she loves to complain.
phineas Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Oh, I'm sure you're very sexy. I'm not saying couples of different ages are a bad thing. I'm just saying that most of the older guys who approached me when I was in my 20s came at me with a bit of that sugar daddy vibe -- and that is just not an attractive energy to me. I want real love from a man, not money. (If the real love comes with money, great, but that's never going to be main draw.) Great, I feel like Borat now. LOL! I make 'em laugh. I want someone who wants me for me. Besides, the ex-wife gets most of my money anyways. Er I mean my kids do. Yeah, my kids...that's the ticket.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 I guess my statement in this very thread (and others) that I prefer women aged 30+ doesnt' count? Why not? You seem to often talk about younger women like they are the real prize while making comments that aren't really that nice about older women.
dasein Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 You seem to often talk about younger women like they are the real prize while making comments that aren't really that nice about older women. How exactly is saying that younger women hit on me and I rebuff their advances (for the most part) stating that they are "the real prize?" How much more plain can I be than "I prefer women age 30+?" Is there no limit to your willingness to distort posts you find disagreeable? My comments about older women that aren't nice, aren't about "older women," but a particular subset of women who have made impulsive, bad choices their entire lives, sport a bevy of children from different men to prove it, and then expect some sap to swoop in and save her from herself with his pristine wallet. That's not a comment or observation about older women generally. Your problem is one of distorted perspective, you simply cannot take people's posts in the plain context they intended, rather choosing the context you want, no matter how farfetched. That's transparent and dishonest.
Sanman Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Hahaha awww thank you. It sucks because I look young for my age and the youngings love me. I'm like some MILFy fantasy for them or something. I don't have kids, but I'm the "hot" older woman. That being said, you can't buy a hot older woman a glass of chardonnay? Chivalry is f*cking dead. You know, over the years I have discovered a few things from experience. Among those things, I have learned that some women will happily accept a drink and not give the man who bought said drink the time of day because she is not interested in him sexually. I have also learned that not buying a woman a drink for a woman does not stop her from sleeping with me if she is interested in doing so. Thus, I just by drinks for my friends because there is absolutely no purpose to buying a drink for a stranger.
ShannonMI Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 You know, over the years I have discovered a few things from experience. Among those things, I have learned that some women will happily accept a drink and not give the man who bought said drink the time of day because she is not interested in him sexually. I have also learned that not buying a woman a drink for a woman does not stop her from sleeping with me if she is interested in doing so. Thus, I just by drinks for my friends because there is absolutely no purpose to buying a drink for a stranger. The thing is the guy ASKED me out for a drink. If we had just met at the bar and I hadn't talked to him ever before, I could understand him not buying me a drink. We had met the weekend before and had texted a few times after that. He asked me to meet him for a drink and I did. So I expected him to at least get ONE drink for me. Maybe I'm just a demanding diva though.
Sanman Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 The thing is the guy ASKED me out for a drink. If we had just met at the bar and I hadn't talked to him ever before, I could understand him not buying me a drink. We had met the weekend before and had texted a few times after that. He asked me to meet him for a drink and I did. So I expected him to at least get ONE drink for me. Maybe I'm just a demanding diva though. I agree it would have been good manners in that case, but the points in my previous post still stand. From his point of view, buying you a drink may not have gotten him any closer to his end goal and if you liked the guy enough you would have overlooked that as many women have. I suspect he was right.
ShannonMI Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 I agree it would have been good manners in that case, but the points in my previous post still stand. From his point of view, buying you a drink may not have gotten him any closer to his end goal and if you liked the guy enough you would have overlooked that as many women have. I suspect he was right. Overlooked what? I didn't sleep with him if that's what you're suggesting. I had two glasses of wine and I left. He was way too immature and I told him so.
phineas Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 You know, over the years I have discovered a few things from experience. Among those things, I have learned that some women will happily accept a drink and not give the man who bought said drink the time of day because she is not interested in him sexually. I have also learned that not buying a woman a drink for a woman does not stop her from sleeping with me if she is interested in doing so. Thus, I just by drinks for my friends because there is absolutely no purpose to buying a drink for a stranger. This is how I operate also. The thing is the guy ASKED me out for a drink. If we had just met at the bar and I hadn't talked to him ever before, I could understand him not buying me a drink. We had met the weekend before and had texted a few times after that. He asked me to meet him for a drink and I did. So I expected him to at least get ONE drink for me. Maybe I'm just a demanding diva though. LOL! Well, if I ask a women out for a drink I of course pay for it & maybe the next one. Depends on the cost of the drinks. It's not that i'm cheap, it's just that I honestly do have better things to spend my money on other than women who are just bored & not really interested in me. which happens to men quite a bit.
Sanman Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 Overlooked what? I didn't sleep with him if that's what you're suggesting. I had two glasses of wine and I left. He was way too immature and I told him so. You would have overlooked him not buying you a drink were you interested in sleeping with him. However, that you felt he was immature meant you were not going to sleep with him in any case. Thus, not buying you a drink was a bit of a no-lose proposition for him. EDIT: Shannon, your avatar does not do you justice. I saw the other pic of you in the car and you do not look your age and you really are quite gorgeous.
Sanman Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 This is how I operate also. LOL! Well, if I ask a women out for a drink I of course pay for it & maybe the next one. Depends on the cost of the drinks. It's not that i'm cheap, it's just that I honestly do have better things to spend my money on other than women who are just bored & not really interested in me. which happens to men quite a bit. Agreed on all points.
ShannonMI Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 You would have overlooked him not buying you a drink were you interested in sleeping with him. However, that you felt he was immature meant you were not going to sleep with him in any case. Thus, not buying you a drink was a bit of a no-lose proposition for him. EDIT: Shannon, your avatar does not do you justice. I saw the other pic of you in the car and you do not look your age and you really are quite gorgeous. Not necessarily. I might have slept with him. Not that night, but I would have after dating awhile. He was a cute guy. He seemed nice too until he asked me to taxi him and his friends around and wouldn't buy me a damn drink. That was just a turn off. You can't be a gentleman when you ask a girl out? Apparently not. Thank you for the nice compliment. I like the one in the car, but it's a bit cheesy. Me driving around taking pictures. It is a nice one though, so I put it up as my profile pic.
kaylan Posted December 4, 2011 Posted December 4, 2011 (edited) The title of this thread is false. Most women in my age group date guys in our age group. At most the average age gap is 3 years. I wouldnt consider that dating "older men" And women tend to end up with men in their age group for marriage too. Look it up homies. You know what gets to me on this board. That women will talk about how great men are young or old. And yet the men talk about how worthless women are when they are older while they talk about how much better and great they are. I wish more men saw women like you see men Ruby but the responses here for women are such downers. The thing you have to get is this. Alot of the dudes who stand behind that bs "men age like wine, women age like milk" mantra, love to overlook the fact that for every one young gal thats dating an considerably older fella, theres 20 more young women dating men in their age. Guys just like to give themselves a pat on the back or assume that every young thing is trying to get with them when its not the case. We all age the same, and Im gonna enjoy my prime while I am still 25 and make sure I stay damn sexy for ladies of all ages. Just as many men as women let themselves go and become undesirable physically as they age. Its just I wont be one of those guys who thinks my status and wealth makes me a heartthrob and get lazy in the gym. I wont be the silly old kook whos getting used for his cash. Id rather be used for my body tbh lol Edited December 4, 2011 by kaylan
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