chelle21689 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year but officially with a title for 4 months. We see each other almost every day spending time together, when we're apart he texts me throughout the day and at night will be on the phone with me for an hour. I enjoy company with him but I feel like sometimes it's too much. Sometimes I can't help myself but want to be with him even though I know it's too much. He always wants to see and talk to me which isn't bad but I feel bad if I tell him I need space. He seems the sensitive type to get offended and think something is wrong if all of a sudden I don't want an hour long phone conversation each night texting throughout the day. I feel like all this time together makes us difficult to have good conversation to talk about something new because we talked about everything. Wouldn't you think spending this much time gives you less to talk about? Phone conversations are starting to have more silent periods. How would you tell someone that you don't want to stay on the phone for long period of time without making them feel bad and think that you're starting to get tired of them?
Ariadne Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 How would you tell someone that you don't want to stay on the phone for long period of time without making them feel bad and think that you're starting to get tired of them? This is a little tricky. Usually it's because you want to do something else, so the important thing is to focus on the person and to be in the moment. Eventually they'll hang up or leave and you'll have the good memories.
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