Wolf18 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 The two women in my life that I could have deep, intelligent and interesting conversations with would always complain about how hard it was to connect to women. All intelligent and worthwhile women prefer the company of men, I think this is why I find that even though the two girls I'm talking about aren't models, they still have guys lining up to date them. LOL at Star Gazers assertion that women can "sense" everything... Not only can women sense a guy whose "bitter against women" even if he looks at her randomly on a bus and gives her a warm smile (a post I read a while ago here women were claiming that), but now they can also sense it when other women can't stand to be around girls Is there anything the all knowing fortune-coochie can't sense? Can women communicate with aliens or bend spoons with their minds?
Wolf18 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Maybe, just maybe, 90% of women are intolerable, boring, shallow, materialistic, catty, moody, spoiled bitches? Or is it that they can sense anyone who criticizes this aspect of females and act that way because women work in mysterious ways ?
ShannonMI Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Maybe, just maybe, 90% of women are intolerable, boring, shallow, materialistic, catty, moody, spoiled bitches? Or is it that they can sense anyone who criticizes this aspect of females and act that way because women work in mysterious ways ? I think the women who are catty and act jealous toward other women are the ones who are insecure. Just my opinion. Not that they "sense" a damn thing. They may "sense" the girl they are being bitchy towards is better looking, more intelligent and has an easier time with men. That's about all though.
Woggle Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 A woman having male friends shows that she actually likes men as people which is a huge plus in my book. On the other hand if they are not true friends and just a bunch of guys she uses it is a completely different story.
ShannonMI Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 (edited) Example of a chatty jealous girl: There was this girl I used to work with. She hated me. For what reason, I don't know. It wasn't because I had all these male friends hanging out with me. I was always working when I was around this chick and my friends didn't come in to see me. I had a good looking, steady boyfriend. She had a boyfriend as well but he cheated on her all the time. My boyfriend did not. I'm a pretty girl. She was average if that. I was a hard worker and was told by my boss that she appreciated me all the time. This girl was a slacker and was never told anything of the sort by our boss. So why was this girl jealous and catty toward me? Not because I'm an insecure attention whore, but because I'm pretty, had a faithful and attractive boyfriend and was favored by our boss because of my work ethic. Bitch was a HATER in ever sense of the word. These are the type of catty bitches I'm talking about. Girls like this. Where you do nothing to make them hate on you, they just do because they want what you have. Needless to say I was never friends with this girl because she was just a envious, vicious human being. Can't stand people like that. Edited December 1, 2011 by ShannonMI
mtber75 Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 As a girl, I have many guy friends. I tend to enjoy their company, the same music, interests, and things of that sort. I like to think of myself as a pretty girl, but I feel like I either intimidate guys or they think of me just a guy. I'm not really sure what it is, but they always come t me about their sex lives... among other things. Sometimes I find that even the guys I like talk frankly with me about a lot of things, whcih perhaps prevents them from seeking anything further with me. Insight? They see you as a friend/adviser? They need some advice on their sex lives? Since your hot and a girl, they think they can get a edge if they take advise from a hot girl?
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Is this really true? That's pretty ridiculous. Some girls just prefer the company of men because women can be jealous and catty. Doesn't mean she's a slut. She's friends with them, not f*cking them. Is that what you think too? Lame. It's sort of true. Not about the slut part though. When a guy sees another man who has only female friends we tend to see him as unable to bond with males... a social failure. When we see a woman who has no female friends... it typically means they can't get along with other women. Usually they use the words jealous or catty just as you did. When I hear a girl say that I tend to assume she isn't good with boundaries and flirts with other girls boyfriends... or tries to dominate the attention of all the men in the room... ect. In essence we assume there is something you DO to provoke women to be jealous or catty in your presence. Of course that may or may not be accurate.
ShannonMI Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 It's sort of true. Not about the slut part though. When a guy sees another man who has only female friends we tend to see him as unable to bond with males... a social failure. When we see a woman who has no female friends... it typically means they can't get along with other women. Usually they use the words jealous or catty just as you did. When I hear a girl say that I tend to assume she isn't good with boundaries and flirts with other girls boyfriends... or tries to dominate the attention of all the men in the room... ect. In essence we assume there is something you DO to provoke women to be jealous or catty in your presence. Of course that may or may not be accurate. A guy who only has female friends? Those tend to be gay guys. No offense to gay boys because I love my gays, but that's what I would think if a dude had only female friends. I have a few close female friends. I love them very much. I wouldn't give up my friendships with them ever. My experiences with jealous, catty women is what i described it my above post about the girl I worked with. She had no REAL reason to hate me beside the fact I had things she did not possess. That is the type of girl I am talking about. Did I flirt with her boyfriend? No. Did I dominate all the attention of the men who were around us? No, we were at work and that couldn't happen. She just hated me because she was jealous and insecure. I used to ignore her too and that would drive her mad. The more I ignored her the more nasty she would become. She was a very pathetic girl. I can "sense" girls of that nature a mile away and I steer clear of them. I NEVER try to be friends with them. I like my guy friends and I like my girlfriends. It's about who I have the most in common with and the most fun with.
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 A guy who only has female friends? Those tend to be gay guys. No offense to gay boys because I love my gays, but that's what I would think if a dude had only female friends. That is exactly my point. Guys tend to look at this type of thing and assume you are ostracized by other members of your gender. Gay guys are a perfect example... though I've known a few that got along with other men extremely well. I have a few close female friends. I love them very much. I wouldn't give up my friendships with them ever. My experiences with jealous, catty women is what i described it my above post about the girl I worked with. She had no REAL reason to hate me beside the fact I had things she did not possess. That is the type of girl I am talking about. Did I flirt with her boyfriend? No. Did I dominate all the attention of the men who were around us? No, we were at work and that couldn't happen. She just hated me because she was jealous and insecure. I used to ignore her too and that would drive her mad. The more I ignored her the more nasty she would become. She was a very pathetic girl. I can "sense" girls of that nature a mile away and I steer clear of them. I NEVER try to be friends with them. I like my guy friends and I like my girlfriends. It's about who I have the most in common with and the most fun with. There are guys just as jealous and insecure. Honestly... half of your male friends would love to get into your pants. The other half are either busy with someone they feel is better than you... or don't find you attractive for some reason. Men tend to be very competitive with each other. This can lead to the same kind of thing you are complaining about with women. I believe that in order to deal with the opposite sex, you first have to learn to get along with those of your same gender.
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