inLove1o18 Posted May 27, 2004 Posted May 27, 2004 Ok, so things between me and my boyfriend have changed in the past few days. A few days ago he kept asking me if I was mad at him and I reassured him several times that I'm not. I haven't at all been upset with him. Now he's acting as though there's something wrong with our relationship but he doesn't want to talk about it. He tells me there's nothing wrong, but I don't believe him... I can just see it in his face. Lately he doesn't seem to be as attracted to me ...its like I did something that turned him off. completely. How do I get him to confront me about what's wrong?
faux Posted May 27, 2004 Posted May 27, 2004 Sit down and have a conversation with him over your concerns. Explain why you are upset, and that you want to know that he can trust you with anything, and no matter how bad things are you still want to hear about it. Things were getting shaky with me and a girl recently, and she was actually declining phone calls from all of her friends. After I opened up the lines of communication by leaving a few messages, explaining my concerns and why I wanted to talk to her, she finally realized that I WANT to hear about the BAD things in her life, too, and try to be there for her as best I can. Hopefully, your boyfriend just needs to be reminded that you are there for him, and want to hear about the horrible bad, even if it involves your relationship, because you care about him. Just remind him that you are there to talk, and that it means a great deal to you to speak with him about what is on his mind. Show him he means a lot to you, even if you have to leave a voicemail or two a week. Hopefully he will come around and open up to you, no matter what the problem is.
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