the weekend is coming and I am going to get weak and call him, help!

[colleen26]

OK so I have not talked to my ex since he came into my home wanting to know if I was ignoring, I am doing very well so I am happy for that but it dawned on me today that it is Wednesday and I have made it this far and I have hardly even thought of him.

 

I wonder if I should keep moving on or if I should call him at some point. Do you think he is thinking about me? It wold be comforting to know that he is but I don't know why.

 

I am approching my weak time, the weekends is when I get very weak and want to call him because I am lonely, help!!! I can almost promise you he thinks I will call because I always call on the weekend. I do not want to break down and call and I am afraid that I will, ah what do I do?

 

I know it is over but the question in my mind is it over forever? I am dealing with the fact it is over because I have not thought that far ahead to think it is for good. I am still hanging on to the glimmer of hope he & I will suddenly be happy and together again but I know it won't happen the thought is in the back of my mind.

 

My plan was to not talk to him until July 2nd, his birthday and I figured that if on that day I remember it is his birthday then I will call and say happy birthday and then you never know....if I do not remember on that day but remember after the fact I figured my plan would be to keep moving on and not to call.

 

I am friends with all my ex's and this one I do not think that I can be because I cared so much more for him but is it possible someday or should I just not even consider that ?

[hurtingandconfused]

Do you think he is thinking about me?

Yes, no matter who dumped who both parties think of one another. But you have to understand the dumper believes that it will not work out;therefore, he will not try to reconcile.

 

I do not want to break down and call and I am afraid that I will, ah what do I do?

Go out, and meet people. Go to the mall and hang out. Walk down the street and relieve your stress. Do anything that will keep your mind off your ex.

 

I know it is over but the question in my mind is it over forever?

No one knows if this is forever. However, you have to live your life as if it is FOREVER.

 

is it possible someday or should I just not even consider that ?

You are thinking too far ahead. Be by yourself for right now: heal and then you can answer yourself this question. No one but yourself can truly give an answer that you deserve.

 

P.S.

Don't call him for his Bday.

[halebw]

I think that it is important for you to be strong. If you know that you guys will not work out, then there is no reason for you to waste your life wishing for something that cannot be.

I am going through the same thing myself. I want so bad to go down and see my ex-girlfriend, but I know deep down that we will not work out. It is tough, but you have to be strong.

Instead of calling him, call a friend, call your family, hell, call me. But don't call him! Find something to do to keep you busy. Only time apart will let you heal and let you find what you really want.

 

Be strong. Be proud of yourself.

Hope that helps.

 

BWHale

[meanttolive4ever]

gosh its been forever since i last called my ex. i want to call him and see how he's doing but i dont think i should.