silly_panda Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I have a question here... This happened to me and my friend (a girl) too... Our ex dumped us, went with a new partner soon after... Few months after, they came and tell us that they are not really happy with their current relationship, they are not really getting what they wan, say that they don't really love their current partner... They told us (the dumpee) that they still has feelings for us, blah, blah, blah... And after all that, they still wanna remain in their current relationship and said that they wan their current relationship to work... My question is, why..?
wilsonx Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 This is a bull**** keep you on a string technique. Its such crap. They do it to still see if you care. I got this yesterday and I hooked myself like a champ. Its essentially gaslighting... emotional manipulation. For some reason, your ex's are afraid to let go. Say well not my problem and send them on their way
lolita jade Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Either that or something a little less sinister. Its just called pride. They have ruined evrything with you, feel bad about it but think that you won't want them, so try to make the mess work other than admit failure. They may just be wanting you to suggest trying again. They dont ask outright for fear of being rejected or told to FO. When my ex told me about new woman, he actually had the cheek to say if it didn't work out, could we try again. Ha Ha. He obviously was unsure if new relationship would work. Your ex obviously thought the same thing about their new relationship. Should have waited unitil they were ready then!!!!
shayla Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Humph, nothing more than a mindfu*k. Designed to keep you confused and twisted over them. And to get the ego boost they need until the next fix. They aren't happy in their new relationship? Oh well.
M2155 Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Ok sure they could be honestly having a moment or just cant bring themselves to hurt current, but I agree with everyone that it's just messing with your mind. Hey I still want to be with you, I still want you to want me too, but I don't want to be with you enough to actually break up with current. Then maybe I can start coming around cause I know you want me... Then if things get good I can leave current and if not, I have current...until I find someone else.
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