yzyzyz325 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Is it normal to still miss her? i dont know, i would like to kill myself if i still miss her after almost one yr. Well, half way to go, we will see....
mike588 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Is it normal to still miss her? Wow your still counting,lol. Not that I don't sometimes miss my ex. I've forgotten how many days it's been. Hopefully when I reach that amount of time it will be,,, who? Oh you mean my ex.
lolita jade Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I suggest you rip up your calendar, stop posting here and carry on with your wonderful life. I guess it is ok to miss someone in a healthy way as in occasionally thinking of them and having that 'ahhhh' feeling but if its constant and dominating your life and you can't get over it. I suggest you may need counselling to help at this stage.
notfunny Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 dude its way to much, dont count days..personal i think its normal to still have those moments like where is she now...but dont think about her try to keep ur mind busy.. i quess u now all advices..remember that your life is now.. one day when u meet someone else u will be sry for all the days u wasted thinking about her!.. If u need a talk or smth. feel free to pm
RatsAreCool Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 It took me two years to stop dreaming about a guy that I didn't even date! That I didn't even kiss! That I didn't even get close to dating or kissing! So is it normal? I don't know, what does it mean for something to be normal? I would say that if it's affecting your life in a really negative way--like you literally can't get stuff done--then you need help. But if you're navigating your life well otherwise, don't worry about it. It will fade. It really will. I thought that idiot was the love of my life. Now I think of him, look at pictures, and feel absolutely nothing. Super weird. But it happens given enough time and space. Meeting someone new doesn't hurt.
fucpcg Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I count the months, and its 8, and I'm only slightly better than I was month 1.
69ways Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 more than 10 for me but she reaches out on a monthly basis
broken-and-lost Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Been over a year for me still think about her but it doesn't have the negative effect it was having on my life if you really loved her you will always think abut her in some way and think the what if thats normal. like people say tho if its effecting you in a bad way ie still don't want to get out of bed or can't sleep no motivation at all due to her then time for help
69ways Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 Been over a year for me still think about her but it doesn't have the negative effect it was having on my life if you really loved her you will always think abut her in some way and think the what if thats normal. like people say tho if its effecting you in a bad way ie still don't want to get out of bed or can't sleep no motivation at all due to her then time for help then i must really love her as she is drilling my head day and night
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