fucpcg Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Worse than most, as they get used. Problem is they do get use to a certain life, certain lifestyle. My ex one of the prettiest girls in town... at age 40! She just goes out and hooks up whenever she wants, with whomever, and I'm quite certain that is keeping her from facing the issues of our relationship. However she is miserable, I can see that in her eyes. She was happy to be back to partying this past summer, right after she dumped me, but I can see its no longer g.oing as well as she hoped.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Yes they do. Just because someone is seen as beautiful doesn't mean they don't have the same feelings as everyone else. They fall deeply in love and experience the same terrible pain just like everyone else does. Just because people think a beautiful girl can get any guy she wants and that it shouldn't be difficult for her to move on because of that, doesn't mean that is what she wants and that it makes it easier for her. I have many gorgeous friends who have been left for a plain jane girl and could not go out and date other guys, despite the fact that they had guys throwing themselves at them, because they were so hurt and still loved their ex. So beauty does not necessarily solve all the problems of a break up.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Do beautiful girls ever hit rock bottom? Of course, but rock-bottom for them... would still give you a nosebleed
radiodarcy Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 (edited) i would assume so. but i'm not one of them so it's not like i can speak from personal experience. Edited November 30, 2011 by radiodarcy
Zabs Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Hard question to answer for me Glove..because aesthetically, many are beau..but underneath..sometimes lies deep insecurities. For me..I appreciate the way I look..I don't like people to refer to me by aesthetics. It bores me. Personally, in relationships, I sometimes feel objectified because of certain attributes...none of which mean much to me as I look for the person inside. I have been described as 'pretty' etc..but I care not about that. I would rather be described as loyal, trustworthy..things that matter to me. I know girls who CONSIDER themselves highly attractive...but beyond that there lies jealousy, competitive presonalities, manipulative tactics to preserve what is essentially a low self esteem. Dunno if that helps...but I guess that it really depends of how superficial the girl is. Much love, Zabs xx
Woggle Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 Yes. My ex is a perfect example. She used to model material and I don't think it is possible for her to sink lower than she has.
smudge21 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I think the more attractive the person, the more they are stereotyped to be a certain way. I'm not just talking females either. I reckon for both sexes, when you see a stunningly beautiful person often the first thoughts are that they can't be single or that you won't have a chance. For most of us it's often difficult to approach the "babe" or the "hot guy" for fear of rejection. This in turn leads to them being approached by those typical Alpha types; the ones who may only see the beautiful person as a trophy rather than anything more serious. I know a few girls right now who have trouble getting dates or even chatted up when on a night out. They don't have an attitude and are very chatty and friendly, yet often are single for far too long (one has been single for nearly two years now and I swear she's one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen). The ones that have dated have ended up being treated like dirt and hurt. I'm of course not saying it's better and easier to be less attractive, but I think to presume that just because someone looks amazing on the outside means they must be having a perfect life is very optimistic. I think no matter how you look or act, you go through the same ups and downs, but in different ways.
stillafool Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 I would say beautiful women run the greater risk to be hurt because all the 'playas' go after these girls and get them. In otherwords, they can date the guys who are in high demand and those guys are more likely to cheat.
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